How To Text Boys by Kelli Dunham

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How To Text Boys and Everything You Need to Know About Friendships, Crushes and Social Media by Kelli Dunham, is the book that all tweens and young teens need to be given alongside their first phone.

A great book for parents to read on how to start navigating the perils of parenting a cyber-using teen.

Ideal Age

Ideal for children aged 10 to 13 years.

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Hey there! Let’s dive into a summary of Kelli Dunham’s awesome book, How To Text Boys and Everything you need to know about Friendships, Crushers and Social Media. Kelli Dunham is a nurse from the US who has written several books about puberty and growing up. Her latest book, released in 2016, focuses on the challenges teenagers face in today’s digital world.

Back in the day, things were simpler. We went to school, hung out with friends, and that was it. But now, kids have phones, Facebook, and social media. They’re constantly connected, and it’s a whole new world for us parents to navigate. That’s why books like this are so important. They give us a chance to start conversations and provide evidence-based guidelines on how to handle these new social issues.

Now, let’s take a peek inside the book. It’s a chapter book with lots of pictures, colorful fonts, and a nice layout. It’s an easy read, which is always a plus. The book covers a range of topics, starting with self-esteem online. It reminds us that we’re more than just our likes and followers. It also delves into social media safety, setting boundaries with friends and crushes, and the importance of taking digital vacations. We all need a break sometimes!

As parents, we need to lead by example. If we’re always glued to our phones, our kids will follow suit. So let’s set a good example and show them what healthy behavior looks like. And if your kids haven’t entered the world of social media yet, start setting those examples now. It’ll make things easier as they grow older.

The book also covers successful communication, both online and offline. It’s not just about texting; it’s about connecting with peers, starting conversations, and making small talk with crushes and new friends. There’s even a section on texting grown-ups, which can be super helpful.

Controlling our online reputation is another important topic. It’s all about being mindful of what we share and how we present ourselves online. There’s so much more valuable information in this book, but I won’t spoil it all for you!

I actually borrowed this book from the library because I like to test them out before buying. But let me tell you, this one and the book on how to text girls are definitely worth grabbing. I’m planning to read it cover to cover myself, so I can be prepared for when my daughter enters high school. She’ll be taking the bus and getting a phone soon, and social media will probably be part of her life. As a parent, I want to have these conversations with her, but I also want to be knowledgeable beforehand.

I hope this summary helps you get a sense of what a great resource this book is. Cheers, and happy reading!

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