QUEER: The Ultimate LGBT Guide for Teens by Kathy Belge and Mark Bieschke
Short Summary
QUEER: The Ultimate LGBT Guide for Teens by Kathy Belge and Mark Bieschke is a supportive, practical, and inclusive guide for young people exploring their identity. Originally published in 2011 and updated in 2019, it covers coming out, sexuality, gender identity, relationships, and how to find supportive communities, using language that reflects today’s more inclusive approach.
Age Group
Suitable for children aged 14 to 18 years.
Topics Discussed
LGBTQIA+ Kids | Sex Education | Teenagers
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What this book is about
- QUEER is designed as a handbook for teenagers who are figuring out their identity, or who already identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, or questioning.
- It explains what “queer” means and explores the spectrum of sexual orientation – from straight to gay and everything in between.
- The updated edition uses more inclusive language around sex, gender, and bodies, though like many resources, it can still date quickly as language continues to evolve.
- Topics include sexual orientation, gender identity, intersex identities, and what it means to “come out.”
- The book provides practical strategies for starting conversations with parents, friends, or supportive adults – including timing, planning what to say, and dealing with different reactions.
- Real-life stories are woven throughout, helping teens feel less alone in their experiences.
- It also talks about the importance of building a support network, finding safe spaces, and dealing with bullying or discrimination.
- Emotional wellbeing is highlighted, noting that queer teens are at higher risk of depression and suicide, and stressing the importance of connection and support.
- This is a valuable book for LGBTQIA+ teens, parents, and allies who want to understand and support the challenges queer young people face. It’s affirming, practical, and a much-needed guide in a world where young people are still navigating homophobia and discrimination.
I hope you find this book review helpful!
Happy talking!
❤️ Cath