Book Review
A short overview of this book
Trans+: Love, Sex, Romance, and Being You by Kathryn Gonzales and Karen Rayne is an inclusive sex education book for youth who are transgender, nonbinary, gender-nonconforming, gender-fluid, queer, or questioning their sexual and gender identity.
This comprehensive book will answer all of your child’s questions about gender and covers mental health, physical health and reproduction, transitioning, relationships, sex, and life as a queer individual. It’s full of essential information that diverse teens need to know. It also includes stories from gender diverse teens.
You can learn more on this page, about how to talk to kids about sex education.
Ideal Age
Ideal for children aged 14 to 18 years.
Buy this book
✅ Buy a copy of Trans+: Love, Sex, Romance, and Being You by Kathryn Gonzales and Karen Rayne from Amazon.
Video Transcription
A transcription in case you are more of a reader than a listener
Hey there! I’m Cath Hak, and welcome to Sex Ed Rescue. This is my YouTube channel where I help parents find a better way to talk to their kids about sex. And guess what? It’s also my website, where you’ll find loads of content and resources packed with all the good stuff. Now, let’s dive into a book I want to tell you about.
It’s called Trans Love, Sex, Romance and Being Used, written by two amazing authors. One of them is Karen Rayne, who also has another book with a similar title. I know Karen personally, and let me tell you, she’s a fantastic sex educator. She’s got a background in academia, so you can trust that everything she writes is evidence-based and practical.
Now, this book is all about being transgender and it’s aimed at teens. I’ll be honest, changing our language habits can be tough, even for me. But let’s give it a shot together, shall we? So, this book is about love, sex, relationships, and most importantly, being true to yourself. It’s like a guide to navigating the world of sex and relationships specifically for those who are transitioning.
Inside, you’ll find valuable information about the changes your body goes through during transition, the meaning of gender, and even tips on binding breasts. Plus, there are stories from real trans people sharing their experiences, along with insights from the authors themselves. Oh, and don’t forget the awesome diagrams, like one showing chest binding.
What I really appreciate about this book is that it provides additional resources and suggests checking out YouTube for more learning. Trust me, there are some incredible videos out there that can help you understand more about being transgender.
Now, let’s talk about the dating chapter. It’s absolutely fantastic, whether you’re trans or not. It covers healthy and unhealthy relationships because, let’s face it, domestic violence can happen to teenagers too. And of course, it delves into the topic of sex itself, explaining what it is and how to have it safely.
Towards the end, there’s a section on how to navigate telling your family, school, and workplace about your transition. It also addresses the challenges you might face if people around you aren’t as open-minded or accepting. This book is a treasure trove of information, and I highly recommend it.
It’s not just a dry, factual read. It’s filled with advice on love, sex, and relationships specifically tailored to those who are trans. That’s what makes it so unique and valuable. So, if you know someone who is transitioning or if you have a child going through this journey, this book is a must-read. It’s packed with knowledge and insights that will help you understand and support them.
I absolutely loved this book, even though it’s quite wordy and packed with information. But hey, that’s what makes it so great! So go ahead and grab yourself a copy. Cheers!
