Book Review
A short overview of this book
Asking About Sex & Growing Up : A Question-and-Answer Book for Kids by Joanna Cole is a great book for kids who have questions about love, sex and relationships. Kids who want more information than what a picture book can provide them with.
This is an older book (updated in 2009) that is still very popular. And I can see why! As it provides kids with age-appropriate answers to their questions. And talks about masturbation, why sexual touch can feel nice, what sex is, homosexuality (and other sexual attractions), what a crush is, how to make (and have) a baby, how to prevent pregnancy (and what to do if it happens), how to prevents STIs and to keep yourself safe. And more.
It is extremely comprehensive. But it is a little outdated in regards to its language about gender and sexting/pornography is not mentioned. Despite this, it is still a great book as it answers questions that parents may struggle with.
You can learn more on this page, about how to talk to kids about sex education.
Ideal Age
Ideal for children aged 8 to 12 years.
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Video Transcription
A transcription in case you are more of a reader than a listener
Hey there! I’m Cath Hak, and welcome to Sex Ed Rescue. On my YouTube channel and website, I review books that help parents talk to their kids about sex. Today, I want to tell you about a book called Asking About Sex And Growing Up by Joanna Cole.
Now, this book is a bit old, it was revised in 2009. But let me tell you, I wish I had found it sooner. It’s a great book for tweens and early teens who are ready for more information than what picture books provide. It covers everything from sex and growing up to how feelings and relationships change.
I have to admit, though, some parts of the book are a little outdated. It talks about gender in a black and white way, saying that if you have a penis, you’re a boy. But we know that gender is more complex than that. However, the book still has a lot of valuable information.
Each section starts with a little story that gives some background info. For example, it tells a story about Emily’s little sister asking why she doesn’t have a penis like her cousin Sam. It then explains that boys and girls have different sex organs, with boys’ being on the outside and girls’ being less visible.
The book covers topics like how girls’ bodies change during puberty, including breast development and periods. It also talks about boys’ changes during puberty, like erections and sperm production. It even addresses masturbation and explains that it’s a normal thing that some people do for pleasure.
There’s a section on crushes and same-sex relationships, which is really important for kids to understand. The book also tackles the topic of sexual intercourse, explaining why people have sex and how babies are made. It even talks about birth control and ways to prevent pregnancy.
Now, I have to mention that the book doesn’t cover everything. It doesn’t talk about sexting or porn, and it could use an update on gender and consent. But overall, it’s a great resource for younger kids who are curious about sex.
The book emphasizes respect and directs kids to their parents if they have more questions. It also touches on important topics like sexual abuse and infections that can happen. It’s a good starting point for conversations and can help satisfy kids’ curiosity.
So, in conclusion, I really like this book. It’s not too wordy and provides valuable information in a way that’s easy for kids to understand. It could use some updates, but even without those, it’s still a solid choice.
I hope this review helps you out. Cheers!
