Be Your Own Man by Jessica Sanders

Short Summary

Be Your Own Man by Jessica Sanders is a beautifully inclusive and empowering picture book that helps boys embrace who they are – not who society tells them they should be. It tackles body image, emotions, and self-worth in a refreshing way that invites boys to show up as their full selves, without shame or pressure to fit into outdated gender roles.

Age Group

Suitable for children aged 7 to 9 years.

Topics Discussed

Body Imagie | Gender Stereotypes

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What this book is about

• Be Your Own Man encourages boys to be themselves, reminding them they don’t have to be sporty, tough, or funny to be accepted – being true to who they are is more than enough.
• The book celebrates diversity in boys’ interests, from standing up for others to loving music and dance. It paints a picture of healthy masculinity that includes creativity, kindness, and emotional connection.
• Emotions are a big focus, with guidance on recognising feelings like anger, sadness, or worry, and practical tips for dealing with them. Boys are reassured that it’s okay to cry and to ask for help.
• Friendship is another theme, with clear messages about how to be a good friend and how true friends help you stay authentic and grow.
• Body image is handled sensitively, with the message that there’s no such thing as a “perfect” body, and that listening to and caring for your body is what really matters.
• Importantly, the book includes a gender-inclusive message – that you don’t need a penis to be a boy. This makes it a rare gem in the boys’ self-esteem space.
• At the back, there are additional resources for readers and parents who want to explore the topics further.

I hope you find this book review helpful!

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❤️ Cath