Birds and Bees by the Book by Patricia Weerakoon

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A short overview of this book

Birds and Bees by the Book by Patricia Weerakoon is a  six-book series for parents who want to explain sex to their child from a Christian perspective.

The books are written by a well-known Australian sexologist and academic, who is an evangelical Christian.

These books arrive as a set of  6 books that are designed to be read in whichever order suits you and your child.

They include:

  • ‘Me and My Family’ explores how we become part of our families, and the different kinds of families we see around us. It also explains how families began through Adam and Eve. Children learn that God loves them, and read about what it means to be part of God’s family.
  • ‘Me and My Body’ explores how every child is a special creation of God, how Jesus’ love changes the way we see and treat our bodies, and how children can protect their bodies.
  • ‘Me and My Brain’ introduces children to the way their brain works, and shows them how they can make good choices about what they watch, say and do, which will lead to a strong and healthy brain as they grow.
  • ‘Learning about Sex’ introduces children to the different meanings of the word ‘sex’, God’s good purpose for sex, and what this means for their lives now and as they grow up.
  • ‘Learning about Gender’ helps children to work through what it means to be a boy or a girl, and how to understand issues of gender in the world around them.
  • ‘Learning about Pornography’ helps children to understand why pornography is harmful, what to do if they encounter it, and how to keep their brain healthy.

All of these topics are framed within the Bible’s message that children are unique creations of God, and that sex is a precious gift to be used carefully and wisely in the context of marriage.

BUT it does follow Christian beliefs that certain sexual behaviours are wrong, like same-sex relationships, masturbation, sex before marriage, and infidelity.

The author manages to impart these beliefs without blatantly labelling them as sinful. She explains why these things shouldn’t happen but also talks about acceptance within the Christianity framework.

I think that the author has managed to balance these Christian values with a shame-free and non-judgemental approach to sexuality. 

Ideal Age

Ideal for children aged 7 to 10 years.

Buy this book

You can buy a copy of Birds and Bees by the Book by Patricia Weerakoon from Christian bookstores or the book’s website.

Video Transcription

A transcription in case you are more of a reader than a listener

Hey there! I’m Cath Hak and welcome to Sex Ed Rescue. On my website, Sex Ed Rescue, I help parents find a better way to talk to their kids about sex. I review books because they’re a great tool for having those tough conversations. Today, I want to tell you about a series of books called The Birds and the Bees by Patricia Weerakoon, an Australian sexologist and educator, and illustrated by Lisa Flanagan.

These books are designed for parents to read with kids aged seven to ten. They cover important topics like family, bodies, brains, sex, gender, and pornography. Now, I know these books have a Christian perspective, so they do mention God and refer to stories from the Bible. But what I really like about them is that they approach these topics with love and understanding, without judgment.

Let’s dive into each book briefly. Me and My Family explores different kinds of families and how we become part of them. It also talks about God’s love and what it means to be part of God’s family. Me and My Body teaches kids about their bodies being unique and special creations of God. It also emphasizes the importance of protecting and caring for their bodies.

Me and My Brain helps children understand how their brain works and how they can make good choices in what they watch, say, and do. Learning About Sex introduces kids to the different meanings of the word sex, God’s purpose for sex, and how it relates to their lives as they grow up. Learning About Gender tackles the topic of gender and helps children understand what it means to be a boy or a girl and how to navigate issues of gender in the world around them.

Finally, Learning About Pornography addresses the harmful effects of pornography and teaches children how to keep their brains healthy when encountering it.

Each book comes with a guide for parents, which provides suggestions on how to read the book and what to discuss with your child. I really appreciate that extra support.

Now, I know these books may not cover every situation or perspective, but they provide a great starting point for conversations with your kids. Remember, you can always add your own thoughts and values as you go along.

I hope this review helps you in finding the right resources to talk to your kids about sex. If you want more information, you can visit the website birdsandbeesbooks.com. Happy reading and happy conversations!

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