Consent (for kids) by Rachel Brian

Short Summary

Consent (for Kids!): Boundaries, Respect, and Being in Charge of You by Rachel Brian is a funny yet practical guide that helps older kids understand what consent really means in everyday life. With relatable scenarios and clear explanations, the book covers boundaries, healthy friendships, gut instincts, and tricky situations—making it a fantastic conversation starter for parents.

Age Group

Suitable for children aged 7 to 12 years.

Topics Discussed

Consent | Graphic Novels | Sending Nudes

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What this book is about

  • Consent (for Kids!) is written by Rachel Brian, a parent who knows how to make this important topic age-appropriate and engaging.
  • The book uses humour alongside valuable lessons to explain what consent means, how to set boundaries, and how to respond when others cross them.
  • It covers respecting personal space, supporting friends, and handling situations where something doesn’t feel right.
  • Includes guidance on recognising healthy vs unhealthy friendships and relationships, and trusting your gut.
  • Addresses topics like slut-shaming and challenges the idea that clothing determines consent – helping kids think critically about respect and personal choice.
  • Discusses what to do when someone doesn’t respect boundaries, as well as the importance of consent in everyday situations, not just physical touch.
  • Explains the risks of sharing pictures or videos without permission – a vital digital safety topic for tweens.
  • Provides resources at the back, including helpline numbers and websites for kids who need help or support.
  • While it doesn’t cover every possible bystander situation (like standing up to friends who are being unkind), it’s still a comprehensive and adaptable tool for parents to build on in their own discussions.
  • A valuable book for teaching kids that consent is about mutual respect, safety, and understanding their right to be in charge of their own body and boundaries.
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I hope you find this book review helpful!

Happy talking!
❤️ Cath

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Cath Hakanson is a qualified family sex educator, sexual health nurse and author with 30+ years of clinical and education experience. As an AuDHD parent of two neurodivergent children, she creates clear, practical sex ed resources that help parents talk about bodies, puberty, consent, porn, relationships and sex without shame or judgement.