Book Review
A short overview of this book
Consent (for Kids!) : Boundaries, Respect, and Being in Charge of You by Rachel Brian is the perfect book for starting important conversations with kids about consent.
This book has two titles (exact same book), with the other being – Respect : Consent, Boundaries and Being in Charge of YOU.
Consent can be a complicated subject for kids to understand, but the author simplifies it in a way that is both entertaining but educational. Plus the comic book layout (or graphic novel) means that it may be more enticing for older kids to read.
Sexting is also talked about, in regards to not sharing pictures of people without their permission. Sexting itself isn’t mentioned, but the book can be used to talk about sending nudes or for teaching this lesson BEFORE it becomes a problem.
I really like this book as it is comprehensive and covers nearly every angle of the consent conversation(s) and more!
You can learn more on this page, about how to talk to kids about sex education.
Ideal Age
Ideal for children aged 7 to 12 years.
Buy this book
✅ Buy a copy of Consent (for Kids!) : Boundaries, Respect, and Being in Charge of You by Rachel Brian from Amazon.
Video Transcription
A transcription in case you are more of a reader than a listener
Hey there! I’m Cath Hak, and welcome to Sex Ed Rescue. Today, I want to talk about a fantastic book for older kids that tackles the important topic of consent. It’s called Respect: Consent, Boundaries, and Being in Charge of You by Rachel Brian.
First off, let me tell you why I love this book. Rachel Brian, the author, is a parent herself, so she knows exactly how to make this topic age-appropriate and relatable. It’s not always easy to find books that hit the mark, but this one definitely does.
Inside the book, you’ll find a great mix of humor and valuable information. It starts by explaining what consent really means and how to set boundaries. It even covers how to support your friends and what to do if you witness something that doesn’t feel right. Consent isn’t always black and white, and this book does a great job of showing that.
One thing I did notice is that it doesn’t specifically address standing up for others in certain situations. For example, if your friends are being mean to someone and you’re not sure what to do. But hey, that’s something you can add to the conversation when reading the book with your child. There are so many scenarios covered in this book that it’s still incredibly comprehensive.
The book also talks about healthy friendships, different types of relationships, and how to know if a relationship is healthy or not. It emphasizes the importance of respecting each other’s boundaries and teaches kids to trust their gut instincts.
I really appreciate that the book addresses the issue of slut-shaming and challenges the idea that someone’s clothing determines their consent. It’s a great way to start conversations about respecting personal choices and not making assumptions based on appearances.
Respect also touches on safety, dealing with people who don’t respect boundaries, and the importance of consent in all aspects of life. It even addresses the issue of sharing pictures or videos without permission, which is a crucial topic in today’s digital age.
At the end of the book, there’s a helpful section that provides resources for kids who need help or support. It includes helpline numbers and websites where they can reach out for assistance. It’s a reassuring reminder that they’re not alone and that seeking help is always an option.
Overall, I can’t recommend this book enough. It’s a must-have for every parent’s library. I was so impressed by how well it simplifies the concept of consent and makes it relatable for kids. Remember, it’s all about having ongoing conversations with your child and practicing consent together. So go ahead and grab a copy of Respect: Consent, Boundaries, and Being in Charge of You by Rachel Brian. Trust me, you won’t regret it!
Take care and happy reading!
