Does my bum look big in this ad? by Lisa Cox
Short Summary
Does My Bum Look Big in This Ad? by Lisa Cox is a short, practical, and eye-opening book that helps tweens and teens understand how the media shapes the way we think about bodies. It unpacks the tricks advertisers use, why images are altered, and how unrealistic standards can affect self-esteem. It’s a fantastic tool for talking about body image, media literacy, and confidence during puberty.
Age Group
Suitable for children aged 11 to 14 years.
Topics Discussed
Body Image | Media Literacy
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What this book is about
- Does My Bum Look Big in This Ad? is split into two versions – one for girls and one for boys – with language and examples tailored to each group. Both versions explore how advertising, TV, movies, magazines, and online content influence how kids see themselves.
- The book breaks down what really happens behind the scenes: airbrushing, filters, lighting tricks, poses, and how entire images can be manufactured to create “perfect” bodies.
- It helps kids understand that what they see isn’t real life. It explains how advertisers use sex appeal, photoshop, pretty packaging, and clever messaging to make products look irresistible.
- Body image, dieting, peer pressure, bullying, and pop-culture expectations are all explored in a gentle, relatable way.
- Each chapter includes reflection questions and activities – like writing down three things you like about yourself that aren’t physical – making it a great book to work through together.
- It encourages kids to think critically about what they’re seeing online and in print, instead of absorbing those messages without question.
- The book touches on how advertising can affect self-esteem during puberty, when kids’ bodies are changing and they’re more sensitive to comparisons.
- It’s a helpful starting point for conversations about confidence, self-worth, and how to spot unrealistic or harmful media messages.
- Short, honest, and empowering, Does My Bum Look Big in This Ad? gives kids practical tools to navigate a media landscape full of mixed messages about bodies and beauty.
I hope you find this book review helpful!
Happy talking!
❤️ Cath