Book Review
A short overview of this book
Drawn to Sex: The Basics by Erika Moen & Matthew Nolan is a book for adults that is also a great way for older teens to learn what sex is all about.
As a sex educator (who understands that teens are curious about sex) and as a parent (who doesn’t want her kids learning about sex from porn), I am a HUGE fan of this book. It is a book that has been written for over 18s, so it is extremely explicit in regards to the images and information inside. You definitely want to watch the video review and see what’s inside before you order a copy.
So is this a book for kids? Not for kids but definitely for older teens who are already sexual or who are starting to think about sex as something they would like to do. It is a sex manual in that it does teach you how to ‘do it’ BUT is also about consent and respecting your partner. The information is accurate and correct, and the illustrations mean that it is difficult to misinterpret the information, as it literally shows you what happens. It is also very inclusive and considers the fact that you might be attracted to someone with a penis or you might be attracted to someone with a vulva or you might be attracted to both of them. There are lots of different body shapes, people in wheelchairs, transgender or gender diverse people and more.
Books like this are needed, as more and more teens are turning to porn to learn about sex. This isn’t ideal as it isn’t everyday sex and the focus is on the act rather than the relationship. So we need an alternative that teens will want to read, something that will stimulate them and make them sit in a chair for 2 hours glued to the book (like my kid was). This book is that alternative.
And yes, it is explicit but your teen will be fine with the information in it (and they will think you are a pretty cool and open parent for giving it to them). They probably know a lot more about sex than you think they do. And the information in this book is just what they need. So make sure you have a look at it yourself before handing it over and let them know that they can come and chat to you about anything they read in it. And if you don’t know the answer, be honest and tell them that, and then go find the answer (or email me instead, LOL). Remember, the emphasis with sex education is on being the sort of parent that kids want to talk to. It isn’t about knowing everything and getting it right – it is about being approachable! Books like this make our job as a parent, a lot easier!
It isn’t very often that I rave about a book, but this book deserves it. I see it as a way for teens to learn enough about sex that they won’t need to turn to porn to fill in the gaps.
Ideal Age
Ideal for older teens who are sexually active or 16 to 18 years.
Buy this book
✅ Buy a copy of Drawn to Sex: The Basics by Erika Moen & Matthew Nolan from Amazon.
Video Transcription
A transcription in case you are more of a reader than a listener
Hey there! I’m Cath Hak from Sex Ed Rescue, and I’m super excited to share my thoughts on this amazing book with you. Now, I’m pretty picky about the books I buy, but let me tell you, this one blew me away!
So, it’s not your typical book on sex education. Nope, it’s actually a comic book! And let me tell you, it’s refreshing to see a book that talks about sex in a fun and engaging way. The authors, Erica and Matt, may not be sex educators or experts, but they sure know their stuff. They’ve consulted with some real experts in the field to make sure the information is accurate and reliable.
One thing I love about this book is that it covers more than just the physical act of sex. It delves into the importance of relationships and connections, which is so refreshing. And let me tell you, it’s not afraid to be explicit. But don’t worry, it’s done tastefully and with a purpose.
The book covers a wide range of topics, from consent to safe sex practices. It even touches on important issues like STI screening, different types of contraception, and sexting. It’s comprehensive and informative, which is something I find lacking in many sex education resources.
Now, I know some parents might be hesitant about giving this book to their teens, but hear me out. It’s actually a great resource for older teens. I showed it to my own twelve-year-old, and we had some really open and honest conversations about it. Of course, every parent knows their child best, so it’s important to review the book yourself before deciding if it’s right for your teen.
One thing I really appreciate about this book is its diversity. It showcases bodies of all shapes, sizes, and genders. It’s inclusive and representative, which is so important in today’s world.
Now, I won’t lie, this book is explicit. But that’s what makes it so effective. It’s not just a bunch of words on a page, it’s filled with engaging illustrations that really bring the information to life. And let me tell you, it’s a page-turner! My daughter spent hours reading it and had so many questions for me. It’s a great way to satisfy their curiosity and provide them with accurate information.
So, if you’re looking for a sex education resource that’s engaging, informative, and inclusive, I highly recommend checking out this book. It’s a fantastic alternative to relying on porn for information, and it’s a great way to start important conversations with your teen. Trust me, you won’t be disappointed!
Alright, I’ve rambled on long enough. I hope this review helps you make an informed decision. Cheers!
