Everybody Masturbates (for girls) by Christian YoungMiller
Short Summary
Everybody Masturbates (for girls) by Christian YoungMiller is a short, self-published book that explains masturbation in a clear, factual, and non-shaming way. Using simple language and friendly illustrations, it helps children understand what masturbation is, why some people do it, and the important rules around privacy, hygiene, and boundaries. It’s designed to normalise a topic that is often surrounded by fear, myths, or silence.
Age Group
Suitable for children aged 8 to 12 years.
Topics Discussed
Masturbation
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What this book is about
- Everybody Masturbates (for girls) is a small book (around 45 pages) that tackles masturbation without embarrassment, scare tactics, or moral panic.
- It explains what masturbation is, why it can feel good, and reassures kids that different people make different choices about it.
- The book directly challenges common myths and fears that some children hear, often from culture, religion, or playground talk.
- A big strength of this book is that it clearly explains privacy rules – masturbation is something that happens in private, not at the kitchen table, in the park, or with other people.
- It also covers hygiene and care, which is often skipped in kids’ books but is genuinely helpful for parents trying to set clear expectations.
- The tone is matter-of-fact and respectful, making it easier for parents to read without cringing or rushing through pages.
- This book works particularly well if a child is masturbating and needs help understanding that it’s a normal behaviour and one that has boundaries around when and where it happens.
- It’s not graphic or explicit, but it also doesn’t dance around the topic – which is exactly what many families need.
I hope you find this book review helpful!
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❤️ Cath