Book Review
A short overview of this book
Getting It. A guide to hot, healthy hookups and shamefree sex by Allison Moon is an inclusive educational book about casual sex and hooking up for young adults.
This is what the Publisher has to say…
An empowering guide to casual sex and hooking up from sex educator and Girl Sex 101 author Allison Moon.
A comprehensive and fun-to-listen-to guidebook for people of all sexual identities and experience levels, Getting It covers all the bases of hook-up culture from first moves and sex etiquette to navigating nonmonogamy and sexual health. In an era of endless crossed signals and heightened awareness of consent and respect, award-winning author and sex educator Allison Moon shows you how to achieve safe and enjoyable encounters by practicing clear communication and consideration of all parties involved – yourself included. Getting It helps you understand what casual sex means for you and offers an instructive and empowering deep dive into how to get it, do it well, and feel great about it every step of the way. And since we’re all imperfect, Moon offers guidance for how to gracefully recover when you screw up – or get screwed over.
Refreshingly intersectional and respectful, Getting It is an honest guide to understanding the basics of hook-up culture and how to partake.
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Video Transcription
A transcription in case you are more of a reader than a listener
Hey there, it’s Cath Hak from Sex Ed Rescue! Today, I want to talk about a book that can make those conversations about love, sex, relationships, and growing up a whole lot easier. It’s called Getting It: A Guide to Hot, Healthy Hookups and Shame-Free Sex by Alison Moon.
Now, this book is a bit different from your typical sex education book. It focuses specifically on casual sex and all the important aspects that come with it. Alison covers everything from etiquette and safety to having fun while being respectful. She even dives into the reasons why someone might choose to have casual sex and the benefits that can come from it.
Let me be clear, this book isn’t about pushing anyone to engage in casual sex. It’s simply an educational resource that explores the different values and choices people have when it comes to their sexuality. Some folks prefer sex within a marriage or a committed relationship, while others might be open to casual encounters or even paid arrangements. There’s a whole spectrum out there, and this book sheds light on it all.
Inside, you’ll find chapters on consent, communication, flirting, etiquette, and how to keep yourself safe. It’s a pretty thick book, filled with lots of valuable information to read and absorb. While there aren’t any diagrams, the content is engaging and informative.
I truly believe that Getting It is a valuable read for anyone who is starting to explore their own sexuality and considering casual hookups. It’s written in a way that promotes a healthy approach to these experiences.
So, if you’re looking for guidance on how to navigate casual sex in a safe and consensual way, I highly recommend giving this book a go. Alison Moon has a fantastic reputation, and many people rave about the insights and knowledge they’ve gained from it.
I hope this review has been helpful to you. Cheers!
