How do You Make a Baby by Anna Fiske

Book Review

A short overview of this book

How do You Make a Baby by Anna Fiske is a frank but humorous approach to how babies are made. This book is a little controversial because of the direct approach it takes eg an illustration of a naked man and woman kissing, with an arrow pointing to the vagina, and text saying ‘Come here’. I’ve heard quite a few complaints from parents about this book, so you will either like it or hate it.

What I do like about this book, is that it talks in more detail than most children’s books do, about love and how a loving relationship may lead to sex. It also explains that a baby isn’t made every time you have sex. Like most new books on this topic, it also discusses the other ways a baby is made.

I don’t mind this book but it wouldn’t be the first book I’d recommend to a parent. But if you had a child who was resistant to reading, and you felt that a book with humour might attract their attention, then this book would work.

Sexual intercourse is talked about in this book.

You can learn more on this page, about how to talk to kids about sex education

Ideal Age

Ideal for children aged 8 to 13 years.

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Video Transcription

A transcription in case you are more of a reader than a listener

Hey there! Welcome to Sex Ed Rescue, I’m Cath Hak. On my YouTube channel and website, I review books that help with sex education and show parents a better way to talk to their kids about sex. Today, I want to talk about a book from Europe that I recently got my hands on.

Now, this book caused a bit of a stir because it’s a little explicit. Some people find the pictures a bit too direct, and it has been shared on sites like BuzzFeed. But let me tell you, the information in this book is actually really good. The artwork is simple, maybe not my cup of tea, but hey, everyone has different tastes, right?

What sets this book apart is that it doesn’t just focus on the mechanics of baby-making between a man and a woman. It goes beyond that and talks about the things that happen before sex even takes place. And that’s what I really appreciate about it. It emphasizes that making a baby begins with love, and there are many different kinds of love. It’s inclusive and diverse, which is fantastic.

Now, let’s get into the nitty-gritty. The book explains the basics, like what you need to make a baby – a sperm and an egg. Some people might find these pages a bit crude, while others might find them funny. It also talks about how the sperm finds the egg and the changes that happen as the baby grows inside the uterus. It covers pregnancy, labor, and even different ways a baby can be born.

I have to admit, this book can be a bit awkward at times. I even joked with my son about it, and we had a good laugh. But you know what? Sometimes a little humor can help engage kids with the content. And that’s why I think this book is great. My twelve-year-old found it highly amusing and actually sat down to read it.

Now, I have to be honest with you. This book is on the thicker side, and it’s a bit pricey because it’s a hardcover. There are other more affordable options out there. Personally, I prefer books with a gentle approach that make parents feel more comfortable. But hey, if your kid responds well to a book with a different angle, like this one, then it’s definitely worth considering.

All in all, I think this book is a good resource. It’s refreshing to see such frankness and the emphasis on love before getting into the nitty-gritty. So, if you’re looking for a book that explains how babies are made in a direct and straightforward way, this might be the one for you.

I hope this review helps you make an informed decision. Cheers!

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