How to Be a Boy: and Do It Your Own Way by Dr Ranj

Short Summary

How to Be a Boy: and Do It Your Own Way by Dr Ranj Singh is a thoughtful, approachable book for tweens and young teens that challenges unhealthy ideas about masculinity and helps boys think about who they are, how they want to grow up, and what kind of person they want to be. It is written for readers aged 10+ and feels especially useful for older tweens and early teens.

Age Group

Suitable for tweens and young teens, roughly 9-12 years.

Topics Discussed

Teenage Boys | Growing Up | Gender Stereotypes | Media Literacy | Tweens

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What this book is about

• This book helps boys think about masculinity and what it actually means to be a good human, rather than just copying the loudest messages they see online.
• It tackles unhealthy stereotypes about being a boy and challenges the old idea that boys have to “man up” or fit one narrow mould.
• It looks at the pressure social media can put on boys, especially when they are constantly shown unrealistic versions of confidence, success, and masculinity.
• It encourages kids to be happy with who they are, instead of feeling like they have to perform or pretend to fit in.
• It includes examples of different ways to be a boy, with role models that show boys do not have to like the same things, dress the same way, or act the same way.
• It opens up conversations about cultural expectations and the myths that can shape how boys think about themselves and others.
• It is written in a way that feels approachable for tweens and early teens, which makes it a handy conversation starter for parents.
• This is a really useful book if you want to help your child think critically about the messages they are getting from influencers, algorithms, and the wider world.
• Overall, it is a strong pick for helping boys grow into respectful, thoughtful adults.

I hope you find this book review helpful!

Happy talking!
❤️ Cath