I Like How That Feels by Ella Greenstein

Short Summary

“I Like How That Feels: Exploring the Joy of Our Bodies and Nurturing Personal Boundaries” by Ella Greenstein is a gentle and educational book that introduces young children to the concepts of pleasure, personal boundaries, and body awareness, encouraging them to explore and enjoy their own bodies in a private and respectful manner.

Age Group

Suitable for children aged 3 to 8 years.

Topics Discussed

Masturbation | Female | Vulvas

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What this book is about

  • “I Like How That Feels” by Ella Greenstein is designed to help talk to girls or kids with a vulva about pleasure and masturbation.
  • The book begins with an introduction acknowledging the discomfort around the topic and outlining the gentle approach taken by the author.
  • The story follows a child named Fifi, who discovers joy and pleasure through various sensory experiences.
  • Fifi realises she enjoys the feel of different textures, like a fluffy blanket and a container of dry beans, embracing her sensory awareness.
  • A pivotal moment occurs when Fifi discovers that the water on her vulva feels pleasant during bath time.
  • Fifi’s mother supports her exploration, emphasising the importance of understanding private parts and the concept of privacy.
  • Fifi is encouraged to explore her body in private, such as in her room or the bathtub.
  • The story concludes with a light-hearted family moment and a discussion about the day’s events.
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Cath Hakanson is a qualified family sex educator, sexual health nurse and author with 30+ years of clinical and education experience. As an AuDHD parent of two neurodivergent children, she creates clear, practical sex ed resources that help parents talk about bodies, puberty, consent, porn, relationships and sex without shame or judgement.