Book Review
A short overview of this book
I Said No! a Kid-To-Kid Guide to Keeping Your Private Parts Private by Kimberly King is a book that will help parents to prevent child sexual abuse.
This is a book about teaching kids the concepts of private and in developing healthy boundaries for their private parts. It includes:
- what type of touch is appropriate and with whom
- how to deal with inappropriate behaviour, bribes and threats
- when and where to get help and what to do if they don’t listen
- dealing with feelings of guilt and shame
You can learn more on this page, about how to talk to kids about sex education.
Ideal Age
Ideal for children aged 5 to 9 years.
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✅ Buy a copy of I Said No! a Kid-To-Kid Guide to Keeping Your Private Parts Private by Kimberly King from Amazon.
Video Transcription
A transcription in case you are more of a reader than a listener
Hey there! I’m Cath Hak, your friendly Sex Ed Educator, here to give you a quick summary of a fantastic book called I Said No! A Kid to Kid Guide to Keeping Private Parts Private by Zac and Kimberly King. This book is all about teaching kids how to protect their private parts and what to do if someone behaves inappropriately.
Now, let me tell you a little bit about the authors. Zac and his mom wrote this book after they experienced a situation and couldn’t find many resources to help them. So, they decided to create their own book, and boy, did they do a great job!
First off, the illustrations in this book are absolutely beautiful. But more importantly, it covers an important topic: keeping your private parts private. It’s not a silly storybook, but rather a factual guide that provides important information.
The book starts by introducing the concept of private parts for boys and girls, explaining that they are covered by underwear and have different names. It emphasizes that our bodies are wonderful and deserve to be respected.
Then, it dives into the rules about private parts. It explains that no one should touch them without your permission and discusses what to do if you need to visit a doctor. It even introduces the idea of red and green flags, helping kids understand when to worry and when things are okay.
The book gives examples of situations where someone might try to trick or bribe you into letting them touch your private parts or take inappropriate photos. And here’s the important part: it doesn’t matter if it’s a family member, a friend, or even a stranger, it’s never okay.
But don’t worry, the book also provides guidance on who to talk to and what to do if you find yourself in an uncomfortable situation. It encourages open conversations with your child, asking questions and discussing family rules about keeping kids safe from sexual abuse and respecting their private parts.
And let’s not forget, it also touches on the topic of secrets. It emphasizes the importance of telling a trusted adult if something happens, so your child knows they have support.
Overall, I Said No! is a fantastic resource that covers a lot of ground. It’s not just a book, it’s a tool for having meaningful conversations with your child. So grab a copy, sit down with your little one, and start talking about how to keep their private parts private and stay safe.
I hope this summary helps you understand the value of this book. Cheers!
