Is a Worry Worrying You? by Ferida Wolff

Short Summary

Is a Worry Worrying You? by Ferida Wolff and Harriet May Savitz is a beautifully written and cleverly illustrated book that helps children understand and manage worry. While it isn’t a “sex ed” book in the traditional sense, it’s a valuable addition to your toolbox because learning how to name and manage tricky feelings is an important part of keeping kids safe—especially when it comes to things like sexual abuse prevention.

Age Group

Suitable for children aged 4 to 8 years.

Topics Discussed

Prevent Sexual Abuse

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What this book is about

• Is a Worry Worrying You? uses playful scenarios and quirky illustrations to help kids understand what a worry is and how it can make them feel.
• It describes worry as an invisible feeling that can spoil your day—even if everything else seems fine—and uses silly but relatable examples (like elephants coming to tea!) to make the topic less scary.
• The illustrations are intentionally dark and moody to reflect what worry can feel like, which helps kids visually connect to the emotion.
• It shows that worries can grow if left alone, but also reminds kids that everyone worries—including adults—and that they don’t have to keep their worries to themselves.
• The book shares practical ways to deal with worries, like pretending to hide them in a closet or imagining them flying away. These tools are based on real techniques used in psychology and emotional regulation.
• Most importantly, it encourages children to talk to someone they trust, whether it’s a parent, teacher, or sibling.
• In the context of sex education, this book can open the door to talking about tricky feelings, boundaries, and what to do if something feels wrong or uncomfortable.

I hope you find this book review helpful!

Happy talking!
❤️ Cath