It’s Okay to Say No by Molly Potter

Short Summary

It’s Okay to Say No by Molly Potter is a beautifully illustrated book that helps young children understand consent and body boundaries in everyday situations. Written by an experienced teacher and former sex educator, this book does more than just teach manners – it helps kids recognise their feelings, trust their instincts, and understand when and how to give or withhold consent. It also includes essential body safety messages, making it a standout resource for early years.

Age Group

Suitable for children aged 5 to 7 years.

Topics Discussed

Consent

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What this book is about

This isn’t just a book about saying “no” – it’s a full guide to understanding consent, boundaries, and body safety, all written in a way that young children can truly understand.

It starts by helping kids recognise how they feel – comfortable or uncomfortable – and explains that those inner warning signs are important. From there, it gently introduces the concept of consent and offers lots of real-life examples of when consent should be asked for (like giving hugs or borrowing toys), and when it isn’t needed (like when an adult needs to keep a child safe crossing a busy road).

What sets this book apart is how it:

• Explains that it’s okay to change your mind
• Shows that people express “yes” and “no” in different ways
• Teaches how to respond when someone says “no” (with respect!)
• Covers private body parts and makes it clear that children can’t give consent to sexual touch
• Emphasises the safety rules around private parts using age-appropriate language
• Includes a step-by-step guide for saying “no”
• Encourages children to speak up if someone doesn’t ask for consent
• Offers helpful notes for grown-ups at the back to support ongoing conversations

Because of Molly Potter’s background in sex education, the book is especially thoughtful in how it balances messages of empowerment and safety. It’s ideal for introducing children to the idea that their body belongs to them, while also setting healthy boundaries about private parts and consent that aren’t up for negotiation.

If you’re looking for a book to help start those essential early consent conversations, It’s Okay to Say No is one you’ll want on your shelf.

I hope you find this book review helpful!

Happy talking!
❤️ Cath