Book Review
A short overview of this book
My Body is Safe. Tricky People and Safe People by Crystal Hardstaff is a delightful and engaging children’s book that teaches young children and toddlers about tricky people, and how to stay safe. In this book, children will learn about the difference between a tricky person and a safe person, and how to identify them. They will also learn to listen to their instincts which will help them stay safe in any situation. With simple and easy-to-understand language, this book is perfect for parents and caregivers to use as a tool to teach children about personal safety. Through colourful illustrations and engaging rhymes, “My Body is Safe” empowers children to take ownership of their bodies and helps them understand that they have the right to feel safe at all times. This is an essential book for any child’s library, and a must-read for parents who want to ensure their children know how to protect themselves.
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Ideal Age
Ideal for children aged 3 to 6 years.
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Video Transcription
A transcription in case you are more of a reader than a listener
Hey there!
I’m Cath Hak, and welcome to Sex Ed Rescue. Here, we help parents find an easier way to have those important sex ed conversations with their kids. Today, I want to review a book that’s all about keeping children safe and preventing sexual abuse. It’s called My Body is Safe: Tricky People and Safe People by Crystal Hardstove. This lovely little book is perfect for preschool and primary school-age children.
Before we dive in, there are some notes at the beginning of the book that I think you should read. Now, let’s take a closer look at it together. The book starts off by saying, My body is safe, that’s what I know. I get to decide who can touch me. So I’ll listen to my heart, tummy, and brain. If I feel scared, I’ll say it again. It’s all about teaching children to trust their inner warning signals. By recognizing when they feel uncomfortable or in an unsafe situation, we’re setting them up for success as they grow into teenagers and adults.
Tricky people can look like anyone we meet. They might offer treats, toys, or something sweet. But if they make us feel scared or unsure, we can trust our instincts and feel more secure. Some people may seem nice, but we’ll always trust our heart, tummy, and brain’s advice. On the other hand, safe people are those who make us feel good. They listen, respect, and help us as they should. We can always go to them when we need help or care. They’ll keep us safe, and we know they’ll always be there.
Sometimes, when we meet someone new, our tummy might feel queasy, warning us. Our brain might tell us to stop and think. It’s okay to listen and trust that instinct. The book also emphasizes the importance of keeping our private parts covered and out of sight. And if something doesn’t seem right, we’ll say no and speak up because our body is ours, and we have a choice.
We’ll learn to say stop and walk away, and then tell a safe person what happened that day. Remember, it’s okay to say no and trust your instincts. It’s all about staying safe, happy, and having someone to turn to when you need it. So that’s the gist of this little book. It’s all about listening to your inner warning signals, being mindful of your body, and knowing what to do when you don’t feel safe or comfortable.
Alright, cheers!
