My Private Parts are Private by Robert D. Edelman
Short Summary
Keeping Our Private Parts Safe by Robert D. Edelman is an interactive, child-friendly book that helps children understand which body parts are private, who is allowed to see or touch them, and what to do if something doesn’t feel right. It uses clear language, simple activities, and gentle repetition to support body safety conversations without fear or confusion.
Age Group
Suitable for children aged 6 to 10 years.
Topics Discussed
Prevent Sexual Abuse | Sexual Abuse
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What this book is about
- This book introduces the idea that some body parts are private and that privacy rules help keep kids safe.
- It follows a child named Dakota and shows that they are just like any other kid, helping children relate easily to the story.
- The book explains that private parts are only seen or touched by trusted people in specific situations, such as a parent helping with care.
- It encourages children to think about who they trust and why, rather than giving a rigid or scary rule.
- One standout feature is the interactive layout, including “spot-the-thing” activities and simple questions that invite conversation as you read together.
- It clearly explains the difference between safe touch (like a high five) and unsafe touch (touching or looking at private parts).
- Children are encouraged to tell a trusted adult if someone breaks the rules about private parts, and the book reassures them that talking can help them feel better.
- It gently acknowledges that other children may have experienced unsafe touch too, which can be validating and reassuring for kids who need that message.
- The language is direct and concrete, which works well for children who need clarity rather than vague hints or euphemisms.
I hope you find this book review helpful!
Happy talking!
❤️ Cath