Nonnie Talks About Sex…& More by Mary Jo Podgurski

Short Summary

Nonnie Talks About Sex…& More by Mary Jo Podgurski is a compassionate and inclusive puberty book for children and teens. Written by an experienced educator and health professional, this book stands out for how it embraces gender diversity, consent, pleasure, and body changes without shame. It’s especially helpful for families with transgender, non-binary or gender-questioning children. The book uses relatable characters and a gentle narrative to open up important conversations about puberty, relationships, and growing up.

Age Group

Suitable for children aged 10 to 13 years.

Topics Discussed

Inclusive | Porn | Sending Nudes

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What this book is about

• Nonnie Talks About Sex…& More follows two main characters, Alex and Tamika, along with a few friends, as they navigate the ups and downs of growing up. It begins with friendship and slowly guides kids into deeper topics like body changes, gender, and relationships.
• The book is intentionally inclusive – written for all genders, including transgender and intersex kids. It talks about puberty in a way that affirms every child’s experience, with thoughtful nods to how puberty might feel for kids who don’t fit the “boy” or “girl” mould.
• It covers a wide range of topics: body changes, hormones, hygiene, gender identity, pronouns, pimples, feelings, pleasure, and consent. It even includes modern issues like sexting and pornography – explained in age-appropriate and respectful ways.
• One of the strengths of this book is how it weaves factual information into a story format, making it easier for kids to stay engaged and for parents to start conversations.
• There are reflection questions and activities throughout, designed to prompt discussion between children and their trusted adults. These can be used to open up conversations at home, at school, or in group settings.
• The tone is warm, respectful, and gently educational – never pushy or overwhelming. It feels like a wise and trusted adult is sitting beside you, guiding both you and your child through the tricky bits of growing up.
• The illustrations are inclusive and helpful, showing a range of bodies and identities. Things like menstruation, erections, and breast development are shown without shame.
• The book also touches on important emotional aspects of puberty: how relationships change, how to communicate about boundaries, and how to explore self-identity in a safe and healthy way.

I hope you find this book review helpful!

Happy talking!
❤️ Cath