S.E.X. by Heather Corinna (Scarleteen)

Hey there! Let’s talk about this awesome book called ‘Hey. Sex, so All You Need to Know Sexuality Guide to Get You Through Your Teens and Twenties’ by Heather Carina. Heather is the founder of Scarleteen, a fantastic website in America that provides teenagers with reliable information about sexuality.

I have to say, the information in this book is absolutely wonderful. It’s written in a non-judgmental, open-minded, and factual way. Heather doesn’t tell kids what they should or shouldn’t do; instead, she gives them the facts and helps them figure out what’s appropriate for them. This book is a real gem!

Now, let’s dive into the content. I wish I could show you the whole book, but trust me, it’s a monster! One section I really like is about sex with partners. Heather covers topics like sexual activity, pregnancy and STI risks, and even simple things like kissing and petting. She also has little sections where she talks about other important topics like premature ejaculation, mutual masturbation, dry sex, and manual sex. She uses proper terminology, but don’t worry, she explains everything clearly.

Heather also discusses gender in a really inclusive way. Instead of saying things like all girls have uteruses, she talks about people with uteruses and people with penises. It’s great to see someone being so respectful and understanding of different identities. I’m still learning to be better at this myself, but Heather sets a great example.

This book isn’t just for teenagers, though. It’s also a valuable resource for parents. Let’s be honest, it’s hard to keep up with all the changes in sexual health and education. New STIs pop up, screening methods improve, and even condoms have evolved. Did you know there are now tablets available for terminating pregnancies? It’s amazing how things change! This book keeps you up to date with all the latest information.

I think it’s a book that should be on every family’s bookshelf. Whenever you or your child have a question or need guidance on a sensitive topic, you can turn to this book. It provides ideas and appropriate language for discussing things like online pornography or any other challenging subjects. It’s a real lifesaver!

Even if your child is younger, like 12 or 13, it’s never too early to start learning and preparing. As parents, we need to upskill ourselves and stay informed. Trust me, I’ve worked in various sexual health fields, and I know that things can change quickly. By the time our kids reach their teenage years, there will probably be a new edition of this book.

Oh, and let me tell you, Heather must have dedicated a huge chunk of her life to writing this book. It’s packed with so much valuable content! I can’t remember the exact price, but it’s definitely worth it.

So, cheers to this amazing book! Whether you’re a teenager, a parent, or even an expert in the field, it’s a must-have resource. Let’s keep learning and staying up to date together.