Sexual Decisions book by L. Kris Gowen

Short Summary

Sexual Decisions: It Happened to Me by L. Kris Gowen is a comprehensive, school-style sex education book for teenagers that covers the realities of sex, relationships, safety, and decision-making in a clear, grounded, and very usable way. First published in 2017 as part of the It Happened to Me series, it reads a bit like a textbook – but in a good way.

Age Group

Suitable for children aged 14 to 18 years.

Topics Discussed

Sex Education | Teenagers

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What this book is about

  • Sexual Decisions is part of the It Happened to Me series, which tackles real-life topics teens may encounter, from health conditions to identity and relationships.
  • The book has a textbook-like structure, similar to what teens might see in school or university health classes.
  • It covers body basics and anatomy with clear, simple illustrations.
  • Sexual orientation and gender diversity are included in a straightforward, respectful way.
  • There is discussion around choosing not to have sex, including abstinence, boundaries, and personal safety.
  • STIs and contraception are explained using correct terminology, without being overwhelming or graphic.
  • Relationships, dating, and communication with a partner are given solid attention.
  • Sexual violence and assault are addressed clearly, without fear-mongering.
  • The book explores influences on sexual decision-making, including media and peer pressure.
  • It includes content on sex and relationships online, such as sexting and digital communication.
  • Real-world media examples are referenced to help teens connect the information to everyday life.
  • There are short historical notes and pointers to further resources for readers who want to learn more.
  • A standout feature is the inclusion of movie and TV recommendations, designed to spark conversations between teens and parents.
  • The language is casual and readable, even when introducing less familiar terms like spermicide.
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Cath Hakanson is a qualified family sex educator, sexual health nurse and author with 30+ years of clinical and education experience. As an AuDHD parent of two neurodivergent children, she creates clear, practical sex ed resources that help parents talk about bodies, puberty, consent, porn, relationships and sex without shame or judgement.