cover of Tell Me About Sex, Grandma! By Anastasia Higginbotham

Tell Me About Sex, Grandma! By Anastasia Higginbotham

Inside:  A book that talks about the meaning of sex (without mentioning penetrative sex).

About this book

Tell Me About Sex, Grandma! By Anastasia Higginbotham is a book that will help parents to start conversations about the fact that sex is not just about making babies.

There are lots of books that explain sex to children, but most talk about baby-making sex ie how babies are made. This book is different because it provides a fuller description of sex, and focuses on the dynamics of sex instead of the mechanics.

The book starts off with a young child asking grandma about sex.

Grandma starts off by explaining that is okay to be curious about sex. This is important as it lets them know that it is okay to ask you questions. The child wonders what it is (and isn’t), why sex is bad, not spoken about and a secret.

Grandma explains that it is a grown-up thing. This is important as kids do need to be reminded that sex is just for grown-ups. Sex is also private which means it shouldn’t be seen or shown.

The author describes it as a thing you do with your body, moving it with someone (or by yourself ie masturbation) to feel good. And that we know how to do the moving because our feelings tell us what to do. The child asks if sex always makes a baby, which it doesn’t. The author explains that as you grow up, your feelings grow up too, which means you discover what sexuality means for you and who you will like. 

Consent is talked about, in that you choose whether you want to, and the same for the person that you might be with. The child asks why grown-ups don’t want kids to know about sex, and the authors says that we want to protect children from growing up too fast. The message is shared that adults should not have sex with children (you could also add in that children should not have sex with children too).

I really like this book, and I think it is a book that parents should have on their bookshelf, as it provides you with the opportunity to talk about the other meanings of sex.

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Ideal ages

Tell Me About Sex, Grandma! By Anastasia Higginbotham is ideal for children between the ages of 6 - 11 years of age.

Buy a copy

Buy a copy of Tell Me About Sex, Grandma! By Anastasia Higginbotham from Amazon or Book Depository.

You can find more books like this in my extensive list of Sex Education Books for Children.

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My mission is to create resources that will help you to naturally talk to your kids about sex, all while respecting your personal values.

Which means that inside this website, you'll find lots of resources to help you with talking to your child about love, sex, relationships and growing up.

My Sex Education 101 page includes all of the information on sex education. You'll find lots of different blogposts to help with getting started, on a wide range of different topics.

My Puberty 101 page includes all of the information on puberty. You'll find lots of different blogposts to help with talking to your child about growing up.

You'll find videos about sex ed in my Sex Education Videos resource page that you can watch with your child or to learn more about sex education yourself.

You’ll also find an extensive range of sex education books for children, for kids of all ages. There's even some books in there for parents! 

If you're looking for some ideas on how to talk to your child about bodies, Let's Talk About Bodies, will help you to start naming the private body parts and to have shame-free conversations with them about bodies. It is filled with lots of different ideas on how to have natural converasations with your child about their body. 

You'll also find some child friendly anatomically-correct cartoon illustrations of the genitals and internal reproductive organs that are appropriate for children from the age of 3 and up. Let's Look at Different Body Parts is a printable that will help take the awkward out of talking to your child about their body, so they grow up feeling educated, confident, and comfortable in their own skin.

If you're worried that talking to your child about bodies might lead to questions about sex, then you can relax. Let's Talk About Sex, will help you to explain sexual intercourse to your child in a way they will understand. It breaks sex down into simple steps that  take the stress out of explaining!

If your're unsure about how to answer your child's questions about sex, then The Sex Education Answer Book will give you age-specific answers to the most common questions kid's ask parents about sex.  Which means you don't need to worry about finding a child-friendly explanation that your child understands. 

About the Author Cath Hakanson

I'm Cath, a sex educator living in Australia with my husband and 2 kids. I help parents to talk about sex (with less cringe and more confidence) and empower their child to make smart sexual decisions. To find a better way to talk about sex, you can join my community of parents and visit my shop for helpful resources.

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