The Growing Up Book for Boys by Davida Hartman
Short Summary
The Growing Up Book for Boys: What Boys on the Autism Spectrum Need to Know by Davida Hartman is a clear, practical, and reassuring puberty guide written specifically for autistic boys. Authored by an Irish psychologist who specialises in working with children on the autism spectrum, this book explains the physical, emotional, and social changes of puberty in a direct, concrete way that supports understanding and confidence.
Age Group
Suitable for children aged 9 to 14 years.
Topics Discussed
Autism | Disability
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What this book is about
- The Growing Up Book for Boys explains the physical changes of puberty, including hair growth, voice changes, erections, and wet dreams.
- It normalises body diversity, explaining that penises come in many different shapes and sizes.
- Practical topics like shaving, hygiene, body odour, skin care, and managing pimples are covered in a clear, no-nonsense way.
- Emotional changes during puberty are acknowledged, helping boys understand mood shifts and strong feelings.
- The book introduces crushes and attraction in a simple way, while keeping the focus on respect and appropriate behaviour.
- Friendships are discussed, including the importance of effort, communication, and maintaining relationships as boys grow older.
- Internet safety is included, reminding boys to be cautious about what they view and share online and to avoid unsafe or inappropriate content.
- Body safety is addressed towards the end of the book, reinforcing the right to say no and the importance of personal boundaries.
- While it does not include masturbation or pornography, it still provides a solid, age-appropriate foundation for puberty education.
- A standout feature is the section at the back written for parents and professionals, explaining how and when to use the book, along with further resources.
I hope you find this book review helpful!
Happy talking!
❤️ Cath