The Parents’ Guide to Private Body Parts by Cath Hakanson

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A short overview of this book

The Parents’ Guide to Private Body Parts by Cath Hakanson is a detailed guide for starting shame-free conversations with kids about bodies (including the private parts or genitals).

This book is based on the many different questions parents have about penises and vulvas, includign:

  • The names to teach your child about their private body parts
  • Specific suggestions for incorporating words into everyday life, broken down by age
  • How to manage conversations that involve penises and vulvas
  • How to establish rules about private parts
  • Diversity in genitals and how to discuss it
  • Tips for teaching hygiene
  • How to talk about erections, genital holding, masturbation, puberty, and more

You can learn more on this page, about how to talk to kids about sex education

Ideal Age

Ideal for children aged 3 to 14 years.

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Video Transcription

A transcription in case you are more of a reader than a listener

Hey there! I’m Cath HakanCathson, your friendly Sex Ed Rescue expert. I’m here to help you navigate those sometimes tricky conversations about sex with your kids. Today, I want to tell you about my latest book, which I’m super excited about. It’s called The Parents Guide to Private Body Parts: How to talk to your child about their whole body.

First off, can we just take a moment to appreciate the awesome green cover? Green happens to be my favorite color, so it’s a win-win! But let’s not judge a book by its cover, because the content inside is pretty amazing too.

This book is all about how to talk to your kids about penises, vulvas, and vaginas. It’s actually an expanded version of my popular PDF guide, How to Talk to Kids about Bodies. I received so many questions from parents that I decided to gather all those extra questions and include them in this book.

Inside, you’ll find everything you need to know about discussing genitals with your kids. See, I don’t believe that sex education can be covered in just one book. That’s why I go the extra mile to provide detailed guidance and hold your hand through these conversations.

The book is designed to be user-friendly, with a detailed index to help you find exactly what you’re looking for. It covers important topics like why it’s necessary to talk about these things, how to use inclusive language, and what to say instead of using gendered terms like boys or girls.

I also address common concerns, like what to do if you’ve already told your kids that boys have a penis and girls have a vulva. Plus, I provide practical advice on how to get comfortable using the correct terminology, because let’s face it, some of these words might make you feel a bit awkward at first.

Inside, you’ll find helpful diagrams and labels for both internal and external anatomy. I even have a guide to teach you when it’s appropriate to introduce terms like clitoris and how to navigate using slang names if you choose to do so.

The book covers a wide range of questions you might have about genitals, such as what makes a body part private, why we use different names for the same thing, and even topics like vaginal discharge, erections, circumcision, and more. I’ve got you covered!

Oh, and here’s something new I’ve added to this book: rules! I’ve included six rules that you might want to discuss with your kids regarding their private parts. It’s a great way to establish boundaries and ensure their safety.

To make things even more helpful, I’ve divided the book into age groups, so you can find age-appropriate information for your child. From zero to two years old all the way up to 14, I’ve got you covered with tips on naming private parts, incorporating these conversations into everyday life, and addressing topics like shame, diversity, hygiene, nudity, and puberty.

I’ve put a lot of thought and effort into this book, starting with gathering feedback from parents like you. I wanted to make sure it truly helps you have meaningful conversations with your kids. It’s been through the editing process to streamline it and make it easier for you to tackle. The final result is a decent-sized book with around 50,000 words of valuable information.

I hope you find this book helpful and empowering. Remember, I’m here to support you every step of the way. Let’s make these conversations about bodies and sex a little less daunting and a lot more informative. Cheers!

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