Book Review
A short overview of this book
There’s WHAT on my Phone? : How God’s Good Gift Beats Porn by Lisa Taylor will help parents to talk to kids about porn and sexting.
This book is a fictional story that helps to explain why porn and sexting is dangerous. It combines facts with a stroy, and encourages the reader to understand how it feels to be a victim.
What I really like about this book, is the way in which it explains to a tween why porn isn’t the best way to learn about sex.
It is a Christian book, so it does refer to God and sex as being God’s Gift. If you’re not Christian (or aren’t comfortable with the biblical approach), this book is still helpful, as it provides you with some great talking points to use with your child.
It is a useful resource for helping parents to start potentially awkward conversations.
You can learn more on this page, about how to talk to kids about sex education.
Ideal Age
Ideal for children aged 10 to 14 years.
Buy this book
✅ Buy a copy of There’s WHAT on my Phone? : How God’s Good Gift Beats Porn by Lisa Taylor from Amazon.
Video Transcription
A transcription in case you are more of a reader than a listener
Hey there! Welcome to Sex Ed Rescue with Cath Hak. On my website and YouTube channel, I help parents find better ways to talk to their kids about love, sex, relationships, porn, sexting, and all that good stuff. Today, I want to share a Christian book I found in Australia that tackles the topics of pornography and sexting.
Now, I know this book might not be everyone’s cup of tea since it’s faith-based and references the Bible. But here’s the thing: it’s got some really valuable information that all parents can benefit from, regardless of their faith. The author does a great job explaining to kids why pornography isn’t the best way to learn about sex and why they should think twice before sharing intimate photos of themselves.
This book is a mix of fiction and nonfiction, perfect for kids aged 10 to 14. It tells the story of a ten-year-old (or should I say, a tween) whose parents find a picture on her phone and have a conversation about it. What’s great about this book is that it prompts the reader to think about how they would feel in that situation or how someone else might feel if it happened to them.
The book emphasizes that photos are permanent and that sharing explicit content is illegal. It also delves into the idea that sex is something special that should only happen within a loving and trusting relationship. Yes, there are Christian values woven into the narrative, but I appreciate how it approaches the topic of sex and emphasizes the importance of keeping it private.
Now, let’s take a quick look at the book itself. As you can see, it’s a small book packed with helpful information. It provides guidance on what to do if kids come across porn and includes some resources at the back. The author breaks it down into simple steps: avert your eyes, look away, call it what it is (porn), and tell someone you trust, like Mom or Dad. This book is perfect for kids who are likely to come to you and share what they’ve found.
As a parent, this book gives you plenty of conversation starters. It covers topics like the brain, how to handle porn, and the impact it can have. The book uses cute line drawings throughout, making it engaging for young readers. It even explores the difference between ethical and unethical porn.
Look, no book is perfect, and you’ll need to adapt the content to fit your own comfort level. But I genuinely believe this book can be a valuable tool for starting important conversations with your tween or young teen about sexting, pornography, and being mindful of what they find and share online.
Alright, that’s it for now. I hope this review was helpful. Cheers!
