Things Ellie Likes by Kate E. Reynolds has been written about masturbation for girls with autism and related conditions.
It talks about how masturbation is a private activity, where it should and shouldn’t happen, and general hygiene. A book that you could use with children of all abilities, especially if they have trouble remembering your family rules. It does talk about ejaculation, which usually happens at around 13½ (+/- a few years).
This is a book that can be used with all children, regardless of their ability. I read this (and the boy version) with my 9 year old son, several times and he loved it. Plus it started some great conversations about our family rules plus the fact that masturbation changes as kids go through puberty.
Things Ellie Likes by Kate E. Reynolds is ideal for children from 10 years of age and older.
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I'm Cath, a sex educator living in Australia with my husband and 2 kids. I help parents to talk about sex (with less cringe and more confidence) and to empower their child to make smart sexual decisions. You can join my online parent support group here and visit my shop for helpful resources.