Things Tom Likes by Kate E. Reynolds

Short Summary

Things Tom Likes by Kate E. Reynolds is a direct, practical, and very literal book designed to help boys and young men with autism (and related conditions) understand masturbation, privacy, and body rules. It doesn’t hint or dance around the topic – it names it, shows it, and explains the expectations clearly. That’s exactly why many educators recommend it.

Age Group

Suitable for children aged 10 to 14 years.

Topics Discussed

Autism | Disability | Masturbation

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What this book is about

• Things Tom Likes introduces Tom and the activities he enjoys – including touching his penis.
• The book clearly explains that masturbation is something that happens in private, not in public spaces.
• It defines what “private” means in a concrete way, which is crucial for autistic learners.
• Private body parts are explained as the parts of the body covered by underwear, for everyone, not just boys.
• The book reinforces clear rules: touching private parts happens in private places like a bedroom or bathroom.
• It shows Tom feeling aroused in public and explains that he waits until he gets home – reinforcing impulse control and expectations.
• There is visual nudity, including Tom being fully naked, which may feel confronting for some families.
• Ejaculation is described using simple, literal language (white liquid called sperm), making this section more suitable for post-puberty readers.
• Hygiene is included – Tom gets dressed, washes his hands, and returns to daily life feeling calm and relaxed.
• The book doesn’t moralise masturbation or label it as “good” or “bad” – instead, it focuses on rules, safety, and context.

I hope you find this book review helpful!

Happy talking!
❤️ Cath