Book Review
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Trans Sex: A Guide for Adults by Kelvin Sparks is a fantastic guide for understanding sex and bodies for all trans, non-binary and intersex people. As a nurse, I found this book absolutely fascinating and I learnt a lot about sex and bodies for gender diverse bodies. This is essential reading for parents who are wanting to better understand the changes that will happen from hormonal and surgical treatment, as well as how the body works sexually.
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Written by renowned sex blogger and educator Kelvin Sparks, Trans Sex is the essential guide to sex and bodies for all trans, non-binary and intersex people. Covering everything from post-surgical anatomy and hormone replacement therapy to sex toys, kink and safe sex, this empowering and practical guide also explores desire, pleasure and arousal (and why these aren’t the same thing), how to navigate sex and consent with other people, as well as the difficulties many trans people experience in relation to sex, such as dysphoria and violence.
Raw, honest and nothing like the sex education you received at school, this guide is here to help you on your journey to sexual discovery and fulfilment.
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Ideal Age
Ideal for parents and teens aged 16 to 18 years.
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Video Transcription
A transcription in case you are more of a reader than a listener
Hey there! Welcome to Sex Ed Rescue with Cath Hak. Today, I want to talk about an amazing book that I recently came across called Trans Sex: A Guide for Adults by Kelvin Sparks. This book is a treasure trove of information that I couldn’t put down. Now, I have a nursing background and have been working in sexual health for a long time, so you can imagine how much I geeked out over this book. But here’s the thing, it’s not just for professionals like me. It’s also incredibly valuable for parents who want to support their trans children.
As I read through the book, I couldn’t help but think about my own journey as a cisgender woman. Even though I’ve always identified as a girl and have a vulva, I’m still learning about my own body. So, imagine how important it is for someone with a trans body to have access to accurate information. This book fills that gap beautifully.
Trans Sex covers a wide range of topics, starting with sexual desire, communication, and relationships. It then delves into the changes that can occur depending on whether someone is taking medication, undergoing surgery, or using external methods to affirm their gender identity. The book also addresses important questions about sexual activity and safety, including how hormone therapy might affect sexual experiences.
What I love about this book is that it’s based on medical knowledge, scientific research, and common sense. It’s not just a bunch of opinions thrown together. As I read, I found myself nodding and thinking, Of course, that makes sense! It also covers topics like safe sex, sex toys, and other sexual behaviors.
Now, as a parent and a sex educator, I believe this book is a must-have for anyone with a trans child. It provides valuable information that can help parents navigate conversations about love, sex, and relationships with their kids. Of course, you don’t have to cover everything in the book, but having it as a resource can make a world of difference.
I recommend Trans Sex for teenagers aged 14 and above, although it might be more suitable for those who are 16 and older. Remember, every country has different guidelines regarding puberty suppression and hormone therapy, so it’s important to consider local regulations. But overall, this book is a goldmine of knowledge that can benefit both trans individuals and their parents.
So, if you’re looking for a book that provides accurate information, practical advice, and a supportive perspective on navigating love, sex, and relationships with a trans body, Trans Sex is definitely worth adding to your bookshelf. Trust me, you won’t be disappointed.
Cheers, and happy reading!
