Under Our Clothes: Our First Talk About Our Bodies by Dr Jillian Roberts

Short Summary

Under Our Clothes: Our First Talk About Our Bodies by Dr Jillian Roberts is a thoughtful children’s book for slightly older kids that goes beyond just naming body parts. Instead, it focuses on privacy, consent, modesty, and body image – making it a valuable resource for parents wanting to talk about body safety, self-esteem, and respect.

Age Group

Suitable for children aged 6 to 8 years.

Topics Discussed

Body Image | Body Safety

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What this book is about

  • Under Our Clothes is part of Dr Jillian Roberts’ “Just Enough” series, designed to help children explore tricky but important topics.
  • The book doesn’t include explicit illustrations of genitals. Instead, it focuses on broader conversations about body safety and respect.
  • It explores privacy, modesty, and how different cultures and religions shape views about clothing, change rooms, and gender. Gender-neutral restrooms are mentioned, but intersex children aren’t specifically covered.
  • The idea of a “personal bubble” is used to explain boundaries in a child-friendly way.
  • It clearly explains when it’s okay for someone else (like a parent or doctor) to look at or touch private parts, always with permission and a valid reason.
  • The book also touches on breastfeeding, puberty, body discomfort, and self-consciousness.
  • Consent is central: it stresses that kids are the boss of their own bodies and can say no if they feel uncomfortable.
  • It also covers body image, self-esteem, media influence, and how to support a friend who may be struggling.
  • At the back, parents will find a list of extra resources and recommended reading.
  • This book is a strong choice for families looking to go beyond the basics. It’s not just about private body parts – it’s about teaching kids how to feel safe, respected, and confident in their own skin.
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❤️ Cath

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Cath Hakanson is a qualified family sex educator, sexual health nurse and author with 30+ years of clinical and education experience. As an AuDHD parent of two neurodivergent children, she creates clear, practical sex ed resources that help parents talk about bodies, puberty, consent, porn, relationships and sex without shame or judgement.