Under Our Clothes: Our First Talk About Our Bodies by Dr Jillian Roberts
Short Summary
Under Our Clothes: Our First Talk About Our Bodies by Dr Jillian Roberts is a thoughtful children’s book for slightly older kids that goes beyond just naming body parts. Instead, it focuses on privacy, consent, modesty, and body image – making it a valuable resource for parents wanting to talk about body safety, self-esteem, and respect.
Age Group
Suitable for children aged 6 to 8 years.
Topics Discussed
Body Image | Body Safety
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What this book is about
- Under Our Clothes is part of Dr Jillian Roberts’ “Just Enough” series, designed to help children explore tricky but important topics.
- The book doesn’t include explicit illustrations of genitals. Instead, it focuses on broader conversations about body safety and respect.
- It explores privacy, modesty, and how different cultures and religions shape views about clothing, change rooms, and gender. Gender-neutral restrooms are mentioned, but intersex children aren’t specifically covered.
- The idea of a “personal bubble” is used to explain boundaries in a child-friendly way.
- It clearly explains when it’s okay for someone else (like a parent or doctor) to look at or touch private parts, always with permission and a valid reason.
- The book also touches on breastfeeding, puberty, body discomfort, and self-consciousness.
- Consent is central: it stresses that kids are the boss of their own bodies and can say no if they feel uncomfortable.
- It also covers body image, self-esteem, media influence, and how to support a friend who may be struggling.
- At the back, parents will find a list of extra resources and recommended reading.
- This book is a strong choice for families looking to go beyond the basics. It’s not just about private body parts – it’s about teaching kids how to feel safe, respected, and confident in their own skin.
I hope you find this book review helpful!
Happy talking!
❤️ Cath