What’s Happening to Me? (the Girl One) by Micaela Tapsell
Short Summary
What’s Happening to Me? (Girls) by Michaela Tapsell is a clear, modern puberty guide from Usborne that covers body changes, periods, body hair, breasts, vulvas, masturbation, crushes, body safety, sex, and online safety. While the book is marketed for girls, the language inside is refreshingly inclusive, often referring to people rather than girls, which makes it easier for families to use with a wider range of children. This updated edition replaces the 2015 version and reflects current, accurate, and age-appropriate information presented in a simple, well-illustrated, and factual way.
There is also a boys’ version of this book available, written specifically for boys and kids with a penis, using the same clear, factual, and age-appropriate approach.
Age Group
Suitable for children aged 10 to 13 years.
Topics Discussed
Puberty | Growing Up | Periods
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What this book is about
- Explains puberty and body changes in a clear, factual way, including body hair, breasts, and changing bodies
- Covers periods, including what they are, why they happen, and how to manage them
- Uses inclusive language throughout, often referring to people rather than girls, despite being marketed as a girls’ book
- Shows a wide range of body diversity in the illustrations, including different vulvas and internal anatomy
- Names body parts accurately and explains what’s happening inside the body during puberty
- Includes age-appropriate information about masturbation and erotic dreams, explained without shame
- Talks about crushes and developing feelings in a calm, matter-of-fact way
- Covers body safety and personal boundaries
- Explains what sex is and how babies are made, with clear facts and myth-busting
- Includes information about internet use and online safety
- Is designed as a simple, accessible reference book that kids can dip in and out of as questions come up
I hope you find this book review helpful!
Happy talking!
❤️ Cath