cover of Who We Are! All about being the same and being different by Robie H. Harris

Who We Are! All about being the same and being different by Robie H. Harris

Inside:  A book for kids  that talks about diversity (being different).

About this book

Who We Are! All about being the same and being different by Robie H. Harris and illustrated by Nadine Bernard Westcott, is a book about being the same and yet different.

​This is the fifth book in Robie H. Harris's series of books for children in the early years. Each book focuses on just the one topic. This one is about how we can all be so different yet the same!

Who We Are! All about being the same and being different talks about:

  • there are many people in the world but there is only one of you
  • no one is exactly like you - even if they look alike
  • people's bodies are mostly the same - except for the parts that make you a boy or a girl
  • we all have the same body parts on the inside and the outside
  • but these parts that are the same can look different eg different coloured eyes, skin, hair, etc
  • some of our features are passed onto us from our birth parents or grandparents
  • we can't tell what a person is really like from their outside eg do they like green jelly?
  • sometimes we feel nervous or a little afraid of someone who looks different - chances are though, that you will both have something in common
  • sometimes people say mean things about someone's  skin colour, or what they are wearing
  • everybody has feelings
  • being mean can hurt someone's feelings - try saying sorry for what you have done
  • what's wonderful is that we are more the same than we are different.

This is an important book as it explains to children that whilst we may all be very different, we also have much that is alike.

This is a pretty important lesson for kids to learn. Firstly, because it will help them to be more accepting of the differences that they see around them in their friends. They will be more accepting of differences and be less likely to discriminate against them.

Secondly, it will help them to be more accepting of their own differences because they will know that it is normal for everyone to be different.

Reading Tips

Make sure you have a look at the book first (before you read it to your child)! That way you will know what to expect.  You can find some tips in this article on how to read 'sex ed' books.

This book is a picture book but it is very wordy. You may have to  summarise the text on some pages, as it is very comprehensive. Most 3 year olds would not have the attention span to sit through a 'start to end' read of this book.

This is actually a pretty easy book to read. It briefly mentions that the parts that make you a boy or girl, and there are no illustrations of the genitals. So there are no 'scary bits' for you to be worried about ie there is no talk of sexual intercourse. Who We Are! All about being the same and being different is a pretty safe  book to read.

Who We Are! All about being the same and being different is one of the many sex education books for children that talks about diversity. This book though, provides a quite detailed explanation of the many ways that we differ yet are the same.

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Ideal ages

Who We Are! All about being the same and being  different is ideal for children between the ages of 3 - 8 years of age.

Buy a copy

You can buy a copy of Who We Are! All about being the same and being  different from Amazon or Book Depository.

You can find more books like this in my extensive list of Sex Education Books for Children.

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Resources

My mission is to create resources that will help you to naturally talk to your kids about sex, all while respecting your personal values.

Which means that inside this website, you'll find lots of resources to help you with talking to your child about love, sex, relationships and growing up.

My Sex Education 101 page includes all of the information on sex education. You'll find lots of different blogposts to help with getting started, on a wide range of different topics.

My Puberty 101 page includes all of the information on puberty. You'll find lots of different blogposts to help with talking to your child about growing up.

You'll find videos about sex ed in my Sex Education Videos resource page that you can watch with your child or to learn more about sex education yourself.

You’ll also find an extensive range of sex education books for children, for kids of all ages. There's even some books in there for parents! 

If you're looking for some ideas on how to talk to your child about bodies, Let's Talk About Bodies, will help you to start naming the private body parts and to have shame-free conversations with them about bodies. It is filled with lots of different ideas on how to have natural converasations with your child about their body. 

You'll also find some child friendly anatomically-correct cartoon illustrations of the genitals and internal reproductive organs that are appropriate for children from the age of 3 and up. Let's Look at Different Body Parts is a printable that will help take the awkward out of talking to your child about their body, so they grow up feeling educated, confident, and comfortable in their own skin.

If you're worried that talking to your child about bodies might lead to questions about sex, then you can relax. Let's Talk About Sex, will help you to explain sexual intercourse to your child in a way they will understand. It breaks sex down into simple steps that  take the stress out of explaining!

If your're unsure about how to answer your child's questions about sex, then The Sex Education Answer Book will give you age-specific answers to the most common questions kid's ask parents about sex.  Which means you don't need to worry about finding a child-friendly explanation that your child understands. 

About the Author Cath Hakanson

I'm Cath, a sex educator living in Australia with my husband and 2 kids. I help parents to talk about sex (with less cringe and more confidence) and empower their child to make smart sexual decisions. To find a better way to talk about sex, you can join my community of parents and visit my shop for helpful resources.

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