From YouTube to group chats: Why tweens need help navigating porn
So… your child is online. They’re watching YouTube, playing games, chatting with friends.
And whether you like it or not – porn is out there.
In this episode, we’re talking about how to protect your tween from porn – and why the best protection isn’t a filter, it’s a conversation.
You’ll learn what to say (and how to say it), how to keep your child safe and curious, and how to help them understand the difference between real-life relationships and what they might see online.
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In this episode
Here’s what you’ll learn in this episode of Sex Ed for Tween Parents:
- Why porn is so different now than it was when we were growing up
- What your tween might see (and why it’s often not age-appropriate)
- How porn can shape ideas about sex, consent, and relationships
- What to say if your child sees something – and how to help them feel safe telling you
- How to make your devices safer using filters, settings and shared spaces
- Two easy ways to start the conversation – even if you’ve never talked about it before
One-minute challenge
Your challenge this week is simple:
Ask yourself: “If my tween saw porn tomorrow… would they know it’s not real sex?”
If the answer’s no, it might be time to start the convo – even just a little one.
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- Puberty 101 Page
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