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10 puberty books 📗 that your kids will actually enjoy
10 puberty books

10 puberty books your kids will actually enjoy

Inside: 10 puberty books that will help you to prepare your child for the changes that will soon be coming their way. UPDATED August 2019.

10 puberty books (that even you will enjoy!)

One of the most natural ways to start a conversation with your child about puberty is with a book. It means that you can sit down with your child and read the book together. And talk about the changes that will soon be happening to them.

But there are a lot of puberty books out there , which means that working out which is the best book for your child can be a challenge. 

So the 10 puberty books that I love (and regularly recommend) have been written by people who work in the area of sexuality and education, have worked with kids (and their parents) around puberty and have sought the opinion of other professionals.

I have chosen puberty books that focus just on puberty and don't go too much into the next stage of adolescence - the stage where things heat up and really become  sexual!

The age guides are just a guide, as each child develops at their own rate, so you may have a 10 year old girl who still plays with dolls and another who likes to talk about boys (or girls if they are same-sex attracted).

Hair in Funny Places

cover of Hair in Funny Places by Babette Cole

This is a first book that you can use to start introducing the subject of puberty, for kids between the ages of 5-10.

Yes, even a 5 year old is curious about puberty, and if they have an older brother or sister, they will definitely be interested!

Hair in Funny Places by Babette Cole is a highly entertaining and light hearted look at the fact that one day your child's body will start to change to that of an adults.

Personally, I think that most kids should be read this book a couple of times each year, from the age of 5.

You can find a video review here and buy a copy of  Hair in Funny Places from Amazon and Book Depository.

Secret Girl's BusinessSecret Boy's Business

cover of secret boys and girls business

If your child is about 9 or 10, and you are looking for your first book on puberty, then these gender specific books are perfect.

Secret Boys Business and Secret Girls Business by Rose Stewart, Fay Angelo and Heather Anderson are perfect because they focus on just one thing - puberty.

So they don't get into sex or anything like that - all that stuff is for later on! And there are 2 more books from the same authors that also build onto that knowledge!

I would suggest sitting down and reading this book together and then letting your child take it off to read on their own.

You can find a video review here of Secret Boy's Business and buy a copy from Book Depository.

And you can find a video review here of Secret Girl's Business and buy a copy from Book Depository.

Does This Happen to Everyone

cover of Does This Happen to Everyone by Jan Von Holleben and Antje Helms

NB There is a new version (that looks different and has had a slight name and author change.

This European book is fantastic.  Does This Happen to Everyone by Jan Von Holleben and Antje Helms is a Q&A book with answers to  70 of the most common questions that kids ask about growing up. And the age-appropriate answsers are honest and straight-forward. This book would be good for kids aged 11 and older.

It talks about all the usual stuff that you would expect in a puberty book ie the physical changes that happen as well as periods, wet dreams, erections, pimples, bras, etc. Plus it also talks about porn, falling in love, having sex, like a boy or a girl (or both), having a boy or girlfriend, condoms, contraception, pregnancy, birthing, masturbation and much more. 

I really like this book, and the photos inside the book are a lot of fun!

You can find a video review of the book here.

You can buy a copy of this book from Amazon or Book Depository.

The American Girl Books

cover of American Girl Books

The American Girl books on puberty are very popular with both parents and kids.  They provide a very comfortable overview of what puberty and growing up is about.

They talk about nearly everything a kid needs to know about growing up but they are very conservative. Which means they don't talk about sexual intercourse or sexual feelings, which means they are  more suitable for younger children, from the age of 8.

You can watch a video review of  The Care and Keeping of You 1 (American Girl) by Cara Natterson, and buy a copy from Amazon or Book Depository.

You can watch a video review of The Care and Keeping of You 2 (American Girl) by Cara Natterson from Amazon or Book Depository.

You can watch a video review of Guy Stuff: The Body Book for Boys (American Girl) by Cara Natterson from Amazon or Book Depository.

Puberty Girl & Puberty Boy

cover of Puberty Boy and Puberty Girl

These books are very similar in title but differ in regards to the variety of information that they share.

Puberty Girl by Shushan Movsessian focuses on just puberty, and covers the social and emotional aspects in great detail. I think it would work well with girls that are that little bit older, maybe from 11 -12 and older (it depends on daughter's maturity).

Puberty Boy by Geoff Price is similar but it also talks about sex, not in great details, but providing just enough information. I would use this book with boys that are that little bit older, maybe  from 12-14.

You can find a video review of Puberty Girl here and buy a copy from Amazon or Book Depository.

You can find a video review of Puberty Boy here and buy a copy from Amazon or Book Depository.

Anatomy for Kids books

covers of the anatomy for kids books by shelley metten

Shelley Metten from Anatomy for Kids has 6 books (3 for boys and 3 for girls) that provide a lovely introduction to puberty. They target kids fromt he ages of 5-7, 8-10 and 11-13 years of age. 

These books are the only ones that provide provide a detailed overview of the biological changes that happen. The illlustrations and information inside them are fantastic, and would be perfect for a kid who is interested in the mechanics or for homeshooling families. The emotional and social aspects of puberty is also discussed.

Boy's books - The first book, I’m a Boy: Special Me is for 5-7 year olds,  the second book, I’m a Boy: My Changing Body is for 8-10 year olds and the  third book, I’m a Boy: Hormones is for 11-13 year olds.

Girl's books - The first book, I’m a Girl: Special Me is for 5-7 year olds, the second book, I’m a Girl: My Changing Body is for 8-10 year olds and the third book, I’m a Girl: Hormones is for 11-13 year olds.

NB. These books have since been updated (and thenew covers are lovely!).

It's Perfectly Normal

cover of It's Perfectly Normal Changing Bodies, Growing Up, Sex, and Sexual Health by Robie H. Harris

This is a good book to have for kids aged between 10-12. It is a pretty in depth and detailed book that talks about puberty, but also about sex, contraception, STIs and sexual abuse. But it is age appropriate, which means that there is not too much information! 

Perfectly Normal by Robie H. Harris is one of many sex education bookwritten by this author. They are frequently updated and are still a best-seller, many years later.

You can find a video review here  and buy a copy from Amazon and Book Depository.

Karen Gravelle books

covers of karen gravelle books

The puberty books from Karen Gravelle are very popular and are suitable for 12 to 14 year olds.

I like them because they focus on puberty but they also talk about other relevant topics, like pornography, sexting and social media. So they are perfect for  older kids.

Youc an watch a video review and buy a copy of What’s Going on Down There by Karen Gravelle from Amazon or Book Depository.

You can watch a video review and buy a copy of What’s Going on Down There by Karen Gravelle from Amazon or Book Depository.

So that's what's happening

cover of So That's What's Happening by Gina Dawson

This Australian puberty book provides a child-friendly overview of puberty and growing up. If you're looking for a first puberty book that will describe puberty to a younger child, then this book is ideal. There is a lot of text in this book, alongside illustrations. This book is ideal for 8 to 11 year olds.

This book does talk about sexual intercourse, in a child-friendly way.

You can watch a video review of this book here and buy a copy of So That’s What’s Happening by Gina Dawson from Amazon or Book Depository.

Help your kids with growing up

cover of Help Your Kids With Growing Up by DK

Some kids love resource books ie those big thick books that are filled with  lots of factual information. And this book is just that! It's a great book to have on your shelf as it means that your kids (and you) can turn to it for information and not the internet.

Resources

My mission is to create resources that will help you to naturally talk to your kids about sex, all while respecting your personal values.

Which means that inside this website, you'll find lots of resources to help you with talking to your child about puberty.

My Puberty 101 page includes all of the information on puberty. You'll find lots of different blogposts to help with talking to your child about growing up.

You'll find videos about puberty in my Sex Education Videos resource page that you can watch with your child or to learn more about puberty yourself.

You’ll also find an extensive range of children’s books on puberty, for kids of all ages. 

If you get stuck and feel that you need some extra support with talking to your child about puberty, then my book, Boy Puberty – How to talk about puberty and sex with your tween boy or Girl Puberty - How to talk about puberty and sex with your tween girl, may be helpful. It's a straightforward common sense guide that will help you to start having honest conversations that will guide your child through puberty, and strengthen your relationship without feeling embarrassed, awkward or nervous.

If you need some help with explaining sexual intercourse to your child, then Let's Talk About Sex, will help you explain sex to your child in a way they will understand. It breaks it down into simple steps that  take the stress out of explaining!

If you're unsure about how to answer your child's questions about sex, then The Sex Education Answer Book will give you age-specific answers to the most common questions kid's ask parents about sex.  Which means you don't need to worry about finding a child-friendly explanation that your child understands. 

About the Author Cath Hakanson

I'm Cath, a sex educator living in Australia with my husband and 2 kids. I help parents to talk about sex (with less cringe and more confidence) and empower their child to make smart sexual decisions. To find a better way to talk about sex, you can join my community of parents and visit my shop for helpful resources.

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