What to teach your tween about sex? Let’s simplify it
So… you’ve decided to talk to your child about sex. Great!
Now comes the hard part – figuring out how much to say and what’s actually relevant for a tween.
This episode is all about keeping it simple, age-appropriate, and tailored to your child – whether they’re already asking about dating or still playing with LEGO.
I’ll walk you through how to find the right balance, so you’re not saying too little (or way too much).
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Here’s what you’ll learn in this episode of Sex Ed for Tween Parents:
- Why you don’t have to teach everything all at once
- The difference between mentioning and diving into detail
- How to tailor your conversations to your child’s readiness
- What your tween needs to know – whether they’re curious or not
One-minute challenge
Your challenge this week is simple:
Choose one thing you want your tween to understand about sex, bodies or growing up – something that matters to you.
Just one.
It could be: “Your body will start changing soon, and that’s completely normal.”
You don’t need a full lesson plan – just a starting point.
Want more help?
Sex ed doesn’t have to feel awkward or overwhelming. If you want a little extra support to get the convos flowing…
Download my free guide:
5 Cringe-Free Strategies to Naturally Start Sex Ed Conversations
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Check out the Q&A Guides in the Sex Ed Shop
They tell you exactly what to say (and what not to say) when tricky questions come up.
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More resources you’ll love
- Puberty 101 Page
Your go-to hub for all things puberty – including blogposts, guides, and tools to help your child feel confident and prepared.
👉 Visit the Puberty 101 page - The Sex Ed Shop
Need help figuring out what to say (and how to say it)? The shop is packed with ready-to-use guides, workbooks, and cheat sheets for every tricky topic.
👉 Browse the Sex Ed Shop - My Top 10 Favourite Puberty Books
Short on time? Here’s my personal shortlist of the 10 best puberty books I recommend most often to parents.
👉 Check out my top 10 puberty books - Complete List of Puberty Books
Explore a curated list of puberty books for different ages, genders, and topics—so you can find the right fit for your child.
👉 See all recommended puberty books
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