Someone should have told me by Holly-ann Martin
Short Summary
Someone Should Have Told Me by Holly-ann Martin is a clear, practical, child-focused book designed to help parents talk to kids about pornography and unsafe online content. Written by a protective behaviours educator who works directly with children, this book gives parents exact wording and conversation prompts to help kids stay safe online – without fear, shame, or confusion.
Age Group
Suitable for children aged 3 to 10 years.
Topics Discussed
Internet Safety | Porn | Recommended | Sending Nudes
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What this book is about
- Someone Should Have Told Me is designed to help adults talk directly and clearly with children about pornography and unsafe online content.
- The book uses straightforward, child-friendly language based on real conversations Holly-ann Martin has had with kids.
- Each page acts as a conversation starter, giving parents natural pauses to explain, check understanding, and answer questions.
- It explains that pornography exists, that kids might see it accidentally, and that it’s not made for children.
- The book covers practical online safety rules, such as not typing private words into devices and not clicking on pop-ups or ads.
- It addresses online strangers, inappropriate cartoons, and explicit images in a calm, non-scary way.
- Children are encouraged to tell a trusted grown-up if they see something confusing, private, or upsetting.
- The focus is on safety, protection, and support – not curiosity, detail, or sexual behaviour.
- Importantly, the book reassures kids that seeing something online is not their fault.
I hope you find this book review helpful!
Happy talking!
❤️ Cath