Some of the best books about growing up (for children)

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This is a list of books about growing up for children that will help parents prepare their child for all the social or friendship things that happen while growing up.

This booklist is a little different from most of the other lists of books about growing up for children. It is different because it isn’t a list of books about puberty.

Instead, it is a list of books about the social side of growing up. So you will find some novels that talk about the experience of growing up.  Some puberty books talk about this stuff in more detail, too! You can find the puberty book list over here.

If you’re looking for a book on a different topic, look at my main list of sex education books for children. It includes over 40+ topics!

You’ll also find more information about sex education on my Sex Education 101 page.

Not sure what to teach about sex ed at this age?

This printable checklist shows you the priority topics for this age, simple scripts to try, reassurance for common worries, and the next step to take.

Children’s books about growing up

You’ll find an age-specific list of children’s books about growing up. All of the books on this topic are currently showing.

All of the ages are visible, regardless of whether they’re relevant (or not). If no books appear for your chosen age, then it means there aren’t any relevant books.

To find relevant books for your child’s age, click on their age, and the appropriate books will appear.

NOTE: Before passing any book to your child or reading it with them, you should read it yourself first. I might think it is a great book for a certain age child or that the information is valuable, but you may disagree. Try to choose books that reflect your values and the messages you want your child to receive.

  • cover of How to Be a Boy: and Do It Your Own Way by Dr Ranj

    How to Be a Boy: and Do It Your Own Way by Dr Ranj

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  • cover of Girlology There's Something New About You by Melissa Holmes & Trish Hutchison

    Girlology: There’s Something New About You by Melissa Holmes & Trish Hutchison

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  • cover of Invisible Emmie by Terri Libenson

    Invisible Emmie by Terri Libenson

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  • cover of Positively Izzy By Terri Libenson

    Positively Izzy By Terri Libenson

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  • cover of Real Friends book by Shannon Hale and Leuyen Pham

    Real Friends book by Shannon Hale and Leuyen Pham

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  • cover of Boying Up by Mayim Bialik

    Boying Up by Mayim Bialik

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  • cover of Girling Up by Mayim Bialik

    Girling Up by Mayim Bialik

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  • cover of The Girl Guide book by Marawa Ibrahim

    The Girl Guide book by Marawa Ibrahim

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  • cover of Does This Happen to Everyone by Jan Von Holleben and Antje Helms

    Does This Happen to Everyone by Jan Von Holleben and Antje Helms

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    Smile by Raina Telgemeier

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    Drama by Raina Telgemeier

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    Heartstopper 2 by Alice Oseman

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These are some of the many children’s books about growing up that have been written. As I find more, I will add them to this list. They are all really good books that kids can read to find reliable and accurate information about love, sex and relationships.

Oh, and please do let me know if you know of a book to be added to this list!

Happy reading!
❤️ Cath

Not sure what to teach about sex ed at this age?

This printable checklist shows you the priority topics for this age, simple scripts to try, reassurance for common worries, and the next step to take.