I receive lots of requests from Christian parents for sex education books that reflect their faith-based values.
So you’ll find a list of sex education books that talk about God and may refer back to the bible.
Now, my main concern with Christian books, is that they often talk about sin (an awful lot). And after many years of working in sexual health, I have seen firsthand the harm that this can do. I have seen the guilt and shame that adults can feel over sexual activity, and how it then impacts on their ability to have a loving (and healthy) relationship.
So just be mindful of messages that are shameful or based on sin, as it is possible to share your Christian values without instilling shame and guilt. Patricia Weerakoon shows how this can be done with her Birds and Bees series of books.
And I’m sorry to say, that I have not looked inside many of them (if I have, you’ll find it listed below as a book review). Many of the books listed have been recommended to me by parents. Which means that I don’t know the history of the author or the organisation publishing them. And some of these books may be anti-masturbation, abstinence-based (ie sex should only happen within marriage), homophobic, and unsupportive of transgenderism.
So look carefully at the Amazon reviews before you buy.
You will only find books in this list that are readily available at bookshops today.
You can find more books about different topics in the main list of Sex Education Books for Children.
You’ll find more information about sex education in my Sex Education 101 page.
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NOTE: Before passing any book to your child or reading the book with your child, you should read it yourself first. I might think it is a great book for a certain age child or that the information is valuable, but you may disagree. You need to choose books that reflect your values and the messages you want your child to receive.
Christian Sex Education Books
These are books that I have personally reviewed
The Learning About Sex Series
God’s Design for Sex Series
Jim Burn’s – Pure Foundations Series
One of the mums in my Facebook Parent Group shared these books with me (Thanks Kate!). But as she says, being Catholic they will be anti-same sex, anti-trans, no sex before marriage, no masturbation, etc.
Luke Gilkerson books (Intoxicated on Life)
These books are very popular BUT they do talk about sin (an awful lot)
These are some of the many sex education books for Christians. As I find more, I will add them to this list.
Oh, and please do let me know if you know of a book that I should include in this list!
Resources to help with talking about sex
My mission is to create resources that will help you to naturally talk to your kids about sex, all while respecting your personal values.
Which means that inside this website, you’ll find lots of resources to help you with talking to your child about love, sex, relationships and growing up.
My Sex Education 101 page includes all of the information on sex education. You’ll find lots of different blog posts to help with getting started, on a wide range of different topics – bodies, consent, diversity, porn, sexual intercourse and more.
You’ll find videos about sex ed in my Sex Education Videos resource page that you can watch with your child or to learn more about sex education yourself.
You’ll also find an extensive range of sex education books for children, for kids of all ages. There are even some books in there for parents!
If you’re looking for some ideas on how to talk to your child about bodies, How to Talk to Kids About Bodies, will help you to start naming the private body parts and to have shame-free conversations with them about bodies. It is filled with lots of different ideas on how to have natural conversations with your child about their body.
You’ll also find some child-friendly anatomically-correct cartoon illustrations of the genitals and internal reproductive organs that are appropriate for children from the age of 3 and up. Let’s Look at Different Body Parts is a printable that will help take the awkward out of talking to your child about their body, so they grow up feeling educated, confident, and comfortable in their own skin.
Or if you’re looking for an activity that you can sit down and complete with your child, then you may want to look at my activity books. They are perfect for starting natural conversations whilst your hands are busy.
If you need some help with explaining sexual intercourse to your child, then How to Talk to Kids About Sex, will help you explain sex to your child in a way they will understand. It breaks sex down into simple steps that take the stress out of explaining!
If you’re unsure about how to answer your child’s questions about sex, then I have a number of different resources that will give you word-for-word answers that are age-specific.
If you want a printed book to hold in your hands, then The Sex Education Answer Book will give you age-specific answers to the most common questions kid’s ask parents about sex. Which means you don’t need to worry about finding a child-friendly explanation that your child understands.
If you want the answers to questions about a lot more than just sex, then Sex Ed Quickies is your best option. This web-based app has answers to 300+ questions that kids commonly ask parents, including how babies are made, sexual intercourse, body parts, puberty, relationships, pregnancy, birth, masturbation, sexual diversity, gender, pornography, STIs, contraception and much more.
And if you get stuck, feel free to get in touch! You can contact me here.