Welcome to my curated list of the best children’s books that challenge gender stereotypes!
These books are carefully selected to help parents and caregivers create a nurturing environment where children can explore their identities free from outdated gender norms. Each book in this collection celebrates diversity, encourages empathy, and sparks meaningful conversations about breaking down barriers. With engaging stories and vibrant illustrations, these books will inspire young minds to question stereotypes and promote inclusivity. Get ready for an exciting journey of discovery as you embark on this wonderful reading adventure with your child!
You can find more books about different topics in the main list of Sex Education Books for Children.
And if you find this list a little overwhelming, you might want to look at the age-appropriate list of sex education books.
You’ll find more information about sex education in my Sex Education 101 page.
NOTE: Before passing any book to your child or reading the book with your child, you should read it yourself first. I might think it is a great book for a certain age child or that the information is valuable, but you may disagree. You need to choose books that reflect your values and the messages you want your child to receive.
Children’s books about gender stereotypes
You’ll find an age-specific list of books about gender stereotypes. Just click on the age of your child, and you’ll be taken straight to that booklist.
Books for 3 year olds
Who am I? I am Me? by Jayneen Sanders
Everyone is Equal by Jayneen Sanders (Little Big Chats)
I’m a Girl by Yasmeen Ismail
Are you a boy or are you a girl? by Sarah Savage and Fox Fisher
My Shadow is Pink by Scott Stuart
How to be a Real Man by Scott Stuart
Play and Learn PaperDoll Superheroes by Cath Hakanson
Play & Learn PaperDoll Friends by Cath Hakanson
No Difference Between Us by Jayneen Sanders
Books for 4 year olds
Who am I? I am Me? by Jayneen Sanders
Everyone is Equal by Jayneen Sanders (Little Big Chats)
Pink, Blue and You by Elise Gravel
I’m a Girl by Yasmeen Ismail
Are you a boy or are you a girl? by Sarah Savage and Fox Fisher
My Shadow is Purple by Scott Stuart
My Shadow is Pink by Scott Stuart
How to be a Real Man by Scott Stuart
A House for Everyone by Jo Hirst
Play and Learn PaperDoll Superheroes by Cath Hakanson
Play & Learn PaperDoll Friends by Cath Hakanson
Some Girls by Nelly Thomas
Julian is a Mermaid by Jessica Love
My Princess Boy by Cheryl Kilodavis
No Difference Between Us by Jayneen Sanders
The Boy With Pink Hair by Perez Hilton
Jacob’s New Dress by Sarah and Ian Hoffman
Books for 5 year olds
Who am I? I am Me? by Jayneen Sanders
Everyone is Equal by Jayneen Sanders (Little Big Chats)
Pink, Blue and You by Elise Gravel
I’m a Girl by Yasmeen Ismail
Are you a boy or are you a girl? by Sarah Savage and Fox Fisher
My Shadow is Purple by Scott Stuart
My Shadow is Pink by Scott Stuart
How to be a Real Man by Scott Stuart
A House for Everyone by Jo Hirst
Play and Learn PaperDoll Superheroes by Cath Hakanson
Play & Learn PaperDoll Friends by Cath Hakanson
Sparkle Boy by Leslea Newman
Some Girls by Nelly Thomas
Julian is a Mermaid by Jessica Love
My Princess Boy by Cheryl Kilodavis
No Difference Between Us by Jayneen Sanders
The Boy With Pink Hair by Perez Hilton
William’s Doll by Charlotte Zolotow
Jacob’s New Dress by Sarah and Ian Hoffman
Pearl Fairweather Pirate Captain: Book Review
Books for 6 year olds
Who am I? I am Me? by Jayneen Sanders
Everyone is Equal by Jayneen Sanders (Little Big Chats)
Pink, Blue and You by Elise Gravel
I’m a Girl by Yasmeen Ismail
Are you a boy or are you a girl? by Sarah Savage and Fox Fisher
My Shadow is Purple by Scott Stuart
My Shadow is Pink by Scott Stuart
How to be a Real Man by Scott Stuart
A House for Everyone by Jo Hirst
Play and Learn PaperDoll Superheroes by Cath Hakanson
Play & Learn PaperDoll Friends by Cath Hakanson
Sparkle Boy by Leslea Newman
Some Girls by Nelly Thomas
Julian is a Mermaid by Jessica Love
My Princess Boy by Cheryl Kilodavis
No Difference Between Us by Jayneen Sanders
The Boy With Pink Hair by Perez Hilton
William’s Doll by Charlotte Zolotow
Jacob’s New Dress by Sarah and Ian Hoffman
Pearl Fairweather Pirate Captain: Book Review
Books for 7 year olds
Who am I? I am Me? by Jayneen Sanders
Pink, Blue and You by Elise Gravel
Are you a boy or are you a girl? by Sarah Savage and Fox Fisher
My Shadow is Purple by Scott Stuart
My Shadow is Pink by Scott Stuart
How to be a Real Man by Scott Stuart
A House for Everyone by Jo Hirst
Be Your Own Man by Jessica Sanders
Play and Learn PaperDoll Superheroes by Cath Hakanson
Play & Learn PaperDoll Friends by Cath Hakanson
Sparkle Boy by Leslea Newman
Some Girls by Nelly Thomas
Julian is a Mermaid by Jessica Love
My Princess Boy by Cheryl Kilodavis
No Difference Between Us by Jayneen Sanders
The Boy With Pink Hair by Perez Hilton
William’s Doll by Charlotte Zolotow
Jacob’s New Dress by Sarah and Ian Hoffman
Pearl Fairweather Pirate Captain: Book Review
Books for 8 year olds
Who am I? I am Me? by Jayneen Sanders
Pink, Blue and You by Elise Gravel
My Shadow is Purple by Scott Stuart
My Shadow is Pink by Scott Stuart
A House for Everyone by Jo Hirst
Be Your Own Man by Jessica Sanders
Play and Learn PaperDoll Superheroes by Cath Hakanson
Play & Learn PaperDoll Friends by Cath Hakanson
Sparkle Boy by Leslea Newman
Some Girls by Nelly Thomas
Julian is a Mermaid by Jessica Love
My Princess Boy by Cheryl Kilodavis
The Boy With Pink Hair by Perez Hilton
William’s Doll by Charlotte Zolotow
Pearl Fairweather Pirate Captain: Book Review
Books for 9 year olds
My Shadow is Pink by Scott Stuart
Be Your Own Man by Jessica Sanders
Play and Learn PaperDoll Superheroes by Cath Hakanson
Play & Learn PaperDoll Friends by Cath Hakanson
Books for 10 year olds
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Books for 11 year olds
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Books for 12 year olds
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Books for 13 year olds
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Books for 14+ year olds
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These are some of the many children’s books about gender stereotypes that have been written. As I find more, I will add them to this list. They are all really good books that kids can read to find reliable and accurate information about love, sex and relationships.
Happy reading!