Best Children’s Books with Gender Stereotypes

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Welcome to my curated list of the best children’s books that challenge gender stereotypes!

The trend today, regarding talking to kids about gender, is not to stereotype.

By stereotype, I mean that we don’t allow society to dictate how they should express their gender. The days of boys not being allowed to wear pink or play with dolls are slowly changing.

Today, many parents allow boys to wear pink and play with dolls or trucks or whatever they want to play with. Children are increasingly being allowed to express their gender how they want to.

We also know that letting a boy wear a pink tutu won’t make him grow up to be gay. This is a question parents still ask me, as they interpret feminine behaviour or liking toys for girls as an indication their child is same-sex attracted. And although the world is a changing place, homophobia does exist, and I have found that this concern is often based on protectiveness (and not discrimination).

If you’re looking for a book on a different topic, look at my main list of sex education books for children. It includes over 40+ topics!

You’ll find the gender-positive children’s books in a separate book list.

You’ll also find more information about sex education on my Sex Education 101 page.

Not sure what to teach about sex ed at this age?

This printable checklist shows you the priority topics for this age, simple scripts to try, reassurance for common worries, and the next step to take.

Children’s books about gender stereotypes

You’ll find an age-specific list of children’s books about gender stereotypes. All of the books on this topic are currently showing.

All of the ages are visible, regardless of whether they’re relevant (or not). If no books appear for your chosen age, then it means there aren’t any relevant books.

To find relevant books for your child’s age, click on their age, and the appropriate books will appear.

NOTE: Before passing any book to your child or reading it with them, you should read it yourself first. I might think it is a great book for a certain age child or that the information is valuable, but you may disagree. Try to choose books that reflect your values and the messages you want your child to receive.

  • cover of How to Be a Boy: and Do It Your Own Way by Dr Ranj

    How to Be a Boy: and Do It Your Own Way by Dr Ranj

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  • cover of Julian is a Mermaid by Jessica Love

    Julian is a Mermaid by Jessica Love

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  • cover of Some Girls by Nelly Thomas

    Some Girls by Nelly Thomas

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  • cover of Sparkle Boy by Leslea Newman

    Sparkle Boy by Leslea Newman

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  • cover of Suki's Kimino by Chieri Uegaki and Stephane Jorisch

    Suki’s Kimino by Chieri Uegaki and Stephane Jorisch

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  • cover of The Paper Bag Princess by Robert Munsch

    The Paper Bag Princess by Robert Munsch

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  • cover of The Prince and the Dressmaker by Jen Wang

    The Prince and the Dressmaker by Jen Wang

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  • cover of Be Your Own Man by Jessica Sanders

    Be Your Own Man by Jessica Sanders

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  • cover of My Princess Boy by Cheryl Kilodavis

    My Princess Boy by Cheryl Kilodavis

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  • cover of No Difference Between Us by Jayneen Sanders

    No Difference Between Us by Jayneen Sanders

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  • cover of The Boy With Pink Hair by Perez Hilton

    The Boy With Pink Hair by Perez Hilton

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  • cover of William's Doll by Charlotte Zolotow

    William’s Doll by Charlotte Zolotow

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These are some of the many children’s books about gender stereotypes that have been written. As I find more, I will add them to this list. They are all really good books that kids can read to find reliable and accurate information about love, sex and relationships.

Oh, and please do let me know if you know of a book to be added to this list!

Happy reading!
❤️ Cath

Not sure what to teach about sex ed at this age?

This printable checklist shows you the priority topics for this age, simple scripts to try, reassurance for common worries, and the next step to take.