There are some fantastic sex education books for 13 year olds that will provide your teen with accurate and reliable information about love, sex, relationships and growing up.
Books that will provide your teen with positive and accurate information about the birds and bees and the facts of life. Books that will also provide you with an opportunity to talk with your child about what sexual behaviour and attitudes are okay (and not okay) in your family.
There is a mix of books in this list of sex education books for 13 year olds. You’ll find books that talk about puberty and sex, as well as pornography, friendships, consent, gender and more. You won’t find any puberty books in this list, you can find the best puberty books for 13 year olds here.
Books that will help to guide your 13 year old as they grow up.
If it is a particular topic that you’re interested in, then you’ll find books by the topic in the main list of Sex Education Books for Children. And if you’re looking for a book for a different aged child, then you’ll want to look at the age-appropriate list of sex education books.
Now, if you reach a point of overwhelm, then you’ll want to have a look at my list of favourite sex education books. These are the books that I always seem to be recommending to parents. CLICK HERE to look at the 10 best sex education books.
If you want to learn more about getting started with sex education for 13 year olds, then you should look at this age-specific sex education guide for thirteen year olds.
You’ll find more information about sex education in my Sex Education 101 page.
Quick Index
NOTE: Before passing any book to your child or reading the book with your child, you should read it yourself first. I might think it is a great book for a certain age child or that the information is valuable, but you may disagree. You need to choose books that reflect your values and the messages you want your child to receive.
Sex education books for 13 year olds
Body image
Messages About Me: Sydney’s Story: A Girl’s Journey to Healthy Body Image by Educate & Empower Kids
Messages About Me: Wade’s Story: A Boy’s Quest for Healthy Body Image by Educate & Empower Kids
Body Pro by Erin Falligant
Media Muscle by Lisa Cox
Does my bum look big in this ad? by Lisa Cox
Any Body by Katharina von der Gathen
Growing up
How To Text Boys by Kelli Dunham
How To Text Girls by Kelli Dunham
Girl Stuff by Kaz Cooke
Help Your Kids With Growing Up by DK
Are You There God? It’s Me, Margaret? by Judy Blume
Girlology: There’s Something New About You by Melissa Holmes & Trish Hutchison
Invisible Emmie by Terri Libenson
Boying Up by Mayim Bialik
Girling Up by Mayim Bialik
The Girl Guide book by Marawa Ibrahim
Does This Happen to Everyone by Jan Von Holleben and Antje Helms
Drama by Raina Telgemeier
Heartstopper 2 by Alice Oseman
Brave by Svetlana Chmakova
Crush by Svetlana Chmakova
Awkward by Svetlana Chmakova
Boys Will Be Human by Justin Baldoni
Inclusive Books
Wait, What?: A Comic Book Guide to Relationships, Bodies, and Growing Up
Positive Sexuality: A Kid’s Inclusive Guide to Being Body Aware by Sara Perry
This Period in my Life by Saskia Boujo
Welcome to Your Period! by Yumi Stynes & Melissa Kang
How do You Make a Baby by Anna Fiske
Red Moon Gang: An Inclusive Guide to Periods by Tara Costello
The Autism-Friendly Guide to Periods by Robyn Steward
You Know, Sex? Bodies, Gender, Puberty and Other Things by Cory Silverberg
We Need to Talk About Vaginas by Dr. Allison K. Rodgers
TEMPUS Period Tracker App (perfect for tweens & teens)
It’s Totally Normal. An LGBTQIA+ Guide to Puberty, Sex and Gender by Monica Gupta Mehta and Asha Lily Mehta
Internet safety
How To Text Boys by Kelli Dunham
How To Text Girls by Kelli Dunham
The Tech Users Guide to the Digital World by Lori Getz
Noah’s New Phone: A Story About Using Technology for Good by Educate & Empower Kids
Social Media Savvy: Facts and Figures About Selfies, Smartphones and Standing Out by Elizabeth Raum
Staying Safe Online by Louie Stowell
Hamish and the Secret Shadow by Liz Walker
Stand Up to Sexting: An Open Conversation to Parents and Tweens by Christy Monson & Heather Boynton
There’s WHAT on my Phone? : How God’s Good Gift Beats Porn by Lisa Taylor
Your Mind Matters: Social Media and You by Honor Head
LGBTQI+ kids
Everybody Has Those Thoughts. So It Doesn’t Mean You’re Gay by Christian YoungMiller
The ABC’s of LGBT+ by Ashley Mardell
Heartstopper by Alice Oseman
Heartstopper 2 by Alice Oseman
How to Be Ace A Memoir of Growing Up Asexual by Rebecca Burgess
It’s Totally Normal. An LGBTQIA+ Guide to Puberty, Sex and Gender by Monica Gupta Mehta and Asha Lily Mehta
Media literacy
Messages About Me: Sydney’s Story: A Girl’s Journey to Healthy Body Image by Educate & Empower Kids
Messages About Me: Wade’s Story: A Boy’s Quest for Healthy Body Image by Educate & Empower Kids
Petra’s Power to See: A Media Literacy Adventure by Educate & Empower Kids
Media Muscle by Lisa Cox
Does my bum look big in this ad? by Lisa Cox
What is Right and Wrong? Who Decides? Where Do Values Come From? And Other Big Questions
Periods
Welcoming Womanhood by Kate Waud
Have You Started Yet? by Ruth Thomson
I’m a Girl: Hormones by Shelley Metten
The guide, period. By Naama Bloom (HelloFlo)
Period: A Girl’s Guide by JoAnn Loulan and Bonnie Worthen
Period. by Natalie Byrne
This Period in my Life by Saskia Boujo
Go with the Flow by Karen Schneemann
Welcome to Your Period! by Yumi Stynes & Melissa Kang
Red Moon Gang: An Inclusive Guide to Periods by Tara Costello
The Autism-Friendly Guide to Periods by Robyn Steward
Monthly Period & Symptom Tracking Journal
TEMPUS Period Tracker App (perfect for tweens & teens)
Puberty
Puberty Girl by Shushan Movsessian
Puberty and Growing Up by Anna Claybourne
Growing Up For Girls (Usborne Books) by Felicity Brooks
Puberty Boy by Geoff Price
Growing Up For Boys (Usborne Books) by Alex Frith
What’s Happening to my Body? Book for Girls by Lynda Madaras
Puberty: Coming to a Body Near You by Kerri Isham
What’s happening to me? by Peter Mayle: Book Review
Girl Stuff by Kaz Cooke
My Body, My Self for Boys by Lynda Madaras
My Body, My Self for Girls by Lynda Madaras: Book Review
What’s happening to my body? Book for boys by Lynda Madaras
My Changing Body Book (Boys’ Edition): Book Review
My Changing Body Book (Girls’ Edition): Book Review
Welcoming Womanhood by Kate Waud
The Care and Keeping of Us (American Girl)
Have You Started Yet? by Ruth Thomson
I’m a Girl: Hormones by Shelley Metten
The Puberty Book by Kelsey Powell and Wendy Darvill
Levi Sprocket: What’s in my Pocket by Debi Slinger
Poppy Pretzel: Passage into Puberty by Debi Slinger
The guide, period. By Naama Bloom (HelloFlo)
Girl Talk by Lizzie Cox
Girlology: There’s Something New About You by Melissa Holmes & Trish Hutchison
Guy Stuff: The Body Book for Boys (American Girl) by Cara Natterson
Guy Talk by Lizzie Cox
Does This Happen to Everyone by Jan Von Holleben and Antje Helms
I’m a Boy, How Are Girls Different? by Shelley Metten
I’m a Girl, How Are Boys Different? by Shelley Metten
Red Moon Gang: An Inclusive Guide to Periods by Tara Costello
Everything You Always Wanted To Know About Puberty – And Shouldn’t Be Googling: For Curious Boys by Morris Katz
Sex education (books that cover everything)
It’s Perfectly Normal: Changing Bodies, Growing Up, Sex, and Sexual Health by Robie H. Harris
Secret Business of Relationships, Love and Sex: Book Review
Help Your Kids With Growing Up by DK
Wait, What?: A Comic Book Guide to Relationships, Bodies, and Growing Up
Tell me: What children really want to know about bodies, sex and emotions by Katharina von der Gathen
You Know, Sex? Bodies, Gender, Puberty and Other Things by Cory Silverberg
It’s Totally Normal. An LGBTQIA+ Guide to Puberty, Sex and Gender by Monica Gupta Mehta and Asha Lily Mehta
Sexting
The Tech Users Guide to the Digital World by Lori Getz
Nonnie Talks About Sex…& More by Mary Jo Podgurski
Staying Safe Online by Louie Stowell
Stand Up to Sexting: An Open Conversation to Parents and Tweens by Christy Monson & Heather Boynton
There’s WHAT on my Phone? : How God’s Good Gift Beats Porn by Lisa Taylor
How To Text Boys by Kelli Dunham
How To Text Girls by Kelli Dunham
The Tech Users Guide to the Digital World by Lori Getz
Messages About Me: Sydney’s Story: A Girl’s Journey to Healthy Body Image by Educate & Empower Kids
Messages About Me: Wade’s Story: A Boy’s Quest for Healthy Body Image by Educate & Empower Kids
Noah’s New Phone: A Story About Using Technology for Good by Educate & Empower Kids
Petra’s Power to See: A Media Literacy Adventure by Educate & Empower Kids
Social Media Savvy: Facts and Figures About Selfies, Smartphones and Standing Out by Elizabeth Raum
Your Mind Matters: Social Media and You by Honor Head
Transgender & non binary
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These are some of the many sex education books for 13 year olds that have been written. As I find more, I will add them to this list. They are all really good books that kids can read to find reliable and accurate information about love, sex and relationships. Plus they will help prepare you too!
Happy reading!
Resources to help with talking about puberty
My mission is to create resources that will help you to naturally talk to your kids about sex, all while respecting your personal values.
Which means that inside this website, you’ll find lots of resources to help you with talking to your child about puberty.
My Sex Ed 101 page includes all of the information on sex education. You’ll find lots of different blog posts to help you gain a better understandign of what sex education is all about.
You’ll find videos about sex education in my Sex Education Videos resource page that you can watch with your child or to learn more about sex education yourself.
You’ll also find an extensive range of children’s sex education books, for kids of all ages.Â
If you’re unsure about how to answer your child’s questions about sex, then I have the perfect book for you! The Sex Education Answer Book will give you age-specific answers to the most common questions kid’s ask parents about sex. Which means you don’t need to worry about finding a child-friendly explanation that your child understands.
If you need some help with explaining sexual intercourse to your child, then you may like my Masterclass on explaining sex for the very first time or my parent guide will also help you explain sex to your child in a way they will understand. It breaks sex down into simple steps that take the stress out of explaining!
Plus you will find plenty more sex education resources at the Sex Ed Shop.
And if you get stuck, feel free to get in touch! You can contact me here.
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