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The best puberty books disability

This list of puberty books disability has been compiled for the parents who reach out to me, looking for books about puberty that are suitable for their child with a disability.

Sex education in the field of disability is a specialisation. It is not my area of expertise, so I have reached out to some peers who work in this area. And these are the puberty books disability that they recommend, based on their own experiences and on parent feedback.

Puberty books disability list

SECCA App

SECCA app

The SECCA App is a free innovative resource to support access to relationships and sexuality education for people of all ages and abilities. It can be used by parents to start teaching their child about a wide range of topics pertaining to love, sex, relationships and growing up. You can access the SECCA App here.

Special Boys/Girls Business books by Heather Anderson, Fay Angelo and Rose Stewart

Special Boys’ Business supports boys, their parents and carers through the changes experienced at puberty. Information is presented simply, with clear pictures and limited text. You can buy a copy of this book from Book Depository or Booktopia.

Special Girls’ Business takes a girl and her carer step-by-step through the process of managing periods. Information is presented simply, with clear pictures and limited text. You can buy a copy of this book from Book Depository or Booktopia.

Puberty and Special Girls
provides practical information about growing up and will help girls understand the changes they will experience at puberty. It is easy to understand, includes excellent illustrations and offers age appropriate information in a friendly and inclusive manner. You can buy a copy of this book from Book Depository or Booktopia.

The Ellie and Tom Series by Kate E. Reynolds

What’s happening to Ellie? A book about puberty for girls and young women with autism and related conditions
Ellie notices that her body is changing. Hair is growing in new places and there are other changes happening too. Ellie's mum helps her understand that she has started growing into a woman. Following Ellie as she begins to notice changes to her body, this simple resource helps parents and carers teach girls with autism and related conditions about puberty. It covers all the changes that they will experience, both emotional such as new feelings and physical such as periods. This fully illustrated positive and entertaining book provides the perfect opportunity to talk about puberty with girls and young women with autism or related conditions.

You can buy a copy of this book from Amazon or Book Depository or Booktopia.

Tom Needs to Go book by Kate E. Reynolds
Tom Needs to Go book by Kate E. Reynolds is a book for boys with autism and related conditions, about[...]
Things Tom Likes by Kate E. Reynolds
Things Tom Likes by Kate E. Reynolds  has been written about masturbation for boys with autism and related conditions. It[...]
What’s Happening to Tom by Kate E. Reynolds
What’s Happening to Tom by Kate E. Reynolds is a book about puberty for boys with autism and related conditions.[...]
Things Ellie Likes by Kate E. Reynolds
Things Ellie Likes by Kate E. Reynolds has been written about masturbation for girls with autism and related conditions. It[...]

Growing up Books for Girls and Boys by Davida Hartmann

The Growing Up Guide for Girls by Davida Hartman
The Growing Up Guide for Girls by Davida Hartman is a guide for girls on the autism spectrum around puberty and[...]
The Growing Up Book for Boys by Davida Hartman
The Growing Up Book for Boys by Davida Hartman is a book about puberty for boys on the autism spectrum.[...]

The Boys' Guide to Growing Up : Choices & Changes in the Tween & Teen Years

The Boys' Guide to Growing Up : Choices & Changes in the Tween & Teen Years
The Boys' Guide to Growing Up gives boys with intellectual disabilities the facts they need to navigate puberty.Written at a third-grade reading level for boys aged 9-16 with Down syndrome, autism, cerebral palsy, mental retardation, fragile X, or other special needs, this book is the companion to The Girls' Guide to Growing Up (2011), also by Terri Cowenhoven. The author, a certified sexuality educator, draws on more than 20 years experience conducting workshops on puberty and sexuality issues with boys, girls, families, and professionals.The book's succint text, realistic illustrations, and learning activities enable boys to read the book themselves or follow along with the aid of an adult.

Its reassuring, matter-of-fact tone shows boys what changes--inside and out--to expect during puberty, and how to manage them: growth spurts and bigger muscles, voice cracking and deepening, blemishes and oily skin, body and facial hair, moodiness, crushes, flirting, and sexual feelings, erections, wet dreams, and masturbation. The Boys' Guide to Growing Up gives practical advice on commonplace concerns such as shaving, what to do about zits, and how to smell nice. More complex and essential topics are covered too, such as how to know when flirting is reciprocated (or not!), how to hide or discourage an erection in public, what information is okay to share with others versus what should remain private, and how to stay safe. It's a must-have book for boys on the brink of puberty, teens who are in the midst of it, and the adults who care for them.

You can buy a copy of this book from Amazon or Book Depository or Booktopia.

Girls' Guide to Growing Up : Choices & Changes in the Tween Years
Here's a book just for girls beginning a new phase of their lives! This appealing and easy-to-follow guide for girls with intellectual disabilities is an introduction to the physical and emotional changes they'll encounter during puberty. Written on a third-grade reading level for preteens or young teenaged girls to read by themselves or with a parent, it's filled with age-appropriate facts, illustrations and photos, icons, and a Q&A.

The Girls' Guide to Growing Up advises girls about their changing bodies, privacy issues, and how to feel their best, including: what is puberty, outside changes (height & shape, breasts & bras, body hair, skin & blemishes, body odor & deodorant), inside changes (moodiness & handling your feelings, sexual feelings & what to do about them, flirting do's & don't's), periods (what to expect, using a pad), hygiene (keeping face & body clean, showering), privacy, safety & social appropriateness (private parts, rules for who can touch you & when, rules for touching others, what to do if you feel unsafe). The Girls' Guide to Growing Up is written by an experienced sex educator who specializes in working with people with intellectual disabilities. Parents, physicians, schools, and support groups will want to share this encouraging book with girls to help answer their questions about puberty and reassure them it's all part of growing up.

You can buy a copy of this book from Amazon or Book Depository or Booktopia.

Boyfriends & Girlfriends : A Guide to Dating for People with Disabilities
Boyfriends & Girlfriends explains the dos and don'ts of dating for teens and adults with disabilities and validates their normal, age-appropriate desire for companionship and romance. The book covers the biggest questions and smallest concerns of every would-be dater, including: who is an appropriate dating partner & who is not, how to read signals & judge whether the interest is mutual, how to ask someone out on a date, how to turn down a date, how to handle rejection, what sexual feelings are, how to work through problems in a relationship, what to do when a relationship is not working. Written and illustrated for a hi/lo reader, Boyfriends & Girlfriends is perfect for anyone who is already in a relationship, ready to start one, or still only dreaming about it. The guide is also an informative read for parents, counselors, and other support providers.

You can buy a copy of this book from Amazon or Book Depository or Booktopia.

'How To' books for parents and educators

Teaching Children with Down Syndrome About Their Bodies, Boundaries & Sexuality : A Guide for Parents & Professionals by Terri Couwenhoven

Drawing on her unique background as both a sexual educator and mother of a child with Down syndrome, author Terri Couwenhoven blends factual information and practical ideas for teaching children with Down syndrome about their bodies, puberty, and sexuality. This book gives parents the confidence to speak comfortably about these sometimes difficult subjects. It also explains why it's so important to begin early in the life of a child to deal with issues such as hygiene, emotional and physical boundaries, privacy, and what makes for healthy relationships. In a friendly conversational style, the author covers relevant issues and concerns for children of all ages, such as:

  • Labeling & explaining private body parts
  • Identifying & expressing emotions
  • Respecting personal space
  • Teaching self-care & hygiene
  • Understanding norms of privacy
  • Understanding gender identity
  • Showing appropriate levels of affection

She also covers later issues that affect teenagers and young adults, including:

  • Anticipating and understanding puberty
  • Dealing with periods, bras for girls
  • Experiencing erections, wet dreams for boys
  • Relating to the opposite sex
  • Sharing parental values about sexuality
  • Explaining sexual relationships
  • Preventing sexual abuse
  • Understanding how Down syndrome affects puberty & fertility rates

You can buy a copy of this book from Amazon or Book Depository or Booktopia.

Sexuality and Relationship Education for Children and Adolescents with Autism Spectrum Disorders by Davida Hartman
Sexuality and Relationship Education for Children and Adolescents with Autism Spectrum Disorders by Davida Hartman will help parents with talking[...]

'How To' books for parents and educators

Teachers Pay Teachers has some wonderful teaching eResources at low prices, that would be easy for parents to use.

The United Kingdom site TES also has eResources that you can print and download at low prices.

You can find other resources to complement puberty books disability in the Sex Education resources list.

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