Welcome to our blog post specially crafted to provide sex education information tailored specifically for your ten year old! We understand that diving into the vast realm of sex education can be a daunting task, especially when trying to find content that is relevant to your child’s current age and stage of development.
But don’t worry! This age-specific guide is here to lend you a helping hand in finding the most appropriate information for your child at this stage. We’ve handpicked a collection of blog posts and resources that focus on initiating sex education conversations with ten-year-olds, so you can rest assured that the content is suitable for their needs.
Every child is unique, but they all experience general stages of development. The resources we’ve gathered will empower you to support your child as they navigate this crucial period in alignment with your values.
At ten years old, children are beginning to grow up. Puberty may have already started, and you might notice emotional and social changes before any physical changes occur in their bodies. It’s also an age where they may not feel comfortable discussing these topics with you, so perseverance and trying different strategies will be key. Sex education becomes increasingly important at this stage as they start showing more interest in love, sex, and relationships. Thus, it’s the perfect opportunity to provide them with factual information while sharing your values and beliefs. The information below will be relevant for initiating (or continuing) sex education discussions with your ten year old child.
And guess what? As you celebrate their eleventh birthday 🎂, we’ll be right here providing you with sex education information appropriate for eleven year olds too!
So let’s dive in together and embark on this exciting journey of educating our children about sex in a safe and supportive way!
Unsure of what sex education is all about?
Watch Back to Basics my FREE webinar that will tell you what sex ed is, why you need to do it, what might stop you from talking, what to talk about and how to get started.
A 12 minute read on what sex education is all about.
Watch this Parent Masterclass to learn what to expect and how to develop key skills in sex education.
Got some last-minute doubts about whether you are doing the right thing, or not? By starting sex education?
Read this blogpost as it will address your fears about sex education.
Read this blogpost as it explains the benefits of sex education, and how these conversations will empower and protect your child (instead of harm them).
Missed out on sex education yourself? Or already forgotten what you were taught at school?
Watch this Parent Masterclass as it’s the Adult Edition of Sex Ed and is a refresher for modern parents.
Unsure of what sexual behaviour to expect in your child? And what’s normal?
Read this blogpost about healthy sexual development in children and the different behaviours you might see in your 10 year old.
Watch this Parent Masterclass to learn how to understand and support healthy sexual development in your child.
Unsure of what sexual values and beliefs to share with your 10 year old?
Read this blogpost to learn how to talk to kids about sexual values and beliefs.
Use this WorkBook to help you decide which sexual values are relevant and what you could share with your child now.
Unsure of what to talk about with your 10 year old?
Read this blogpost as it explains some of the different topics to talk about with your child.
Grab my parent guide about the many different conversations you may have with your child about penises and vulvas, including naming the private body parts, hygiene, diversity in genitals, erections, genital holding, masturbation, nudity and puberty.
Read this blogpost to find simple ways to teach your child about consent.
Grappling with consent? Learn how to educate your child about giving – and asking for – consent in this popular crash course about consent.
Read this blogpost to learn how to navigate gender in an inclusive way.
Read this blogpost to learn how to care for a penis and a foreskin.
Read this blogpost to learn about child erections (and how to respond).
Unsure of how to talk about masturbation?
Read this blogpost to learn the basics of child masturbation.
Watch this Parent Masterclass to gain a better understanding of why your child might be masturbating, and what to do about it.
Unsure of how to respond when your child is curious about penises and vulvas?
Curiosity about the diversity in genitals is common, so satisfy their curiosity with age-appropriate images, like my anatomically correct cartoon illustrations of naked bodies and private body parts.
Watch this Parent Masterclass on how to respond when kids are curious about other people’s genitals.
Got a child who is curious about human reproduction? Or sex?
Read this blogpost as it simply explains how babies are made.
Grab my parent guide on explaining sex where I break sex into 5 simple steps. Plus it includes illustrations to help with explaining!
Grab my PaperDoll Families which are perfect for explaining where babies come from, how they are made and how they are born. It is inclusive for all family types and even includes illustrations to share with your child!
If you are struggling to get started, then you’ll want this Parent Masterclass on how to explain sex (for the very first time)! It is specially designed to help you get started with this tricky conversation!
Worried your child isn’t old enough? Complete this Parent Quiz: Is your child ready to learn about sex?
Is it time to start preparing your child for puberty?
Look at my Puberty 101 information page as it has everything you need to know about preparing your child for puberty.
Grab my Parents’ Guide to Puberty as it will help you get started with understanding and supporting your child as they go through puberty.
Unsure if your child is ready for the puberty talk? Find out by completing my Parent Quiz: Is your child ready for the puberty talk?
These are the 10 best puberty books and are the books I always seem to be recommending to parents. This is the list to refer to if you find the following lists overwhelming!
Looking for a puberty book that is written specifically for your daughter (or a child with ovaries)? This list sorts the puberty books for girls into the books that do and don’t talk about sex.
Looking for a puberty book that is specifically written for your son (or a child with testicles)? This list sorts the puberty books for boys into the books that do and don’t talk about sex, as well as whether intact and/or circumcised penises are shown.
Looking for a puberty book that is inclusive for LGBTQIA+ children? Then this is the list of inclusive sex ed and puberty books.
This is a list of puberty books for 10 year olds sorted into books written for boys, girls and ALL children.
Is it time to start preparing your child for their first period?
Look at my Puberty 101 information page as it has everything you need to know about preparing your child for periods.
Looking for a period tracker app that is safe and designed for tweens and teens? This is an inclusive, non-gendered period tracking app that includes educational content written by me, and avoids the privacy issues in period apps that were highlighted by Roe Vs. Wade in the USA. You can find the Tempus – Teen Period Tracker at the App Store or the Google Play Store.
Unsure about whether a first period is on it’s way? Complete my First Period Quiz to learn whether it’ll be sooner (or later).
Looking for a book that is mainly about periods? This list contains the period books that have been written for children. The most comprehensive and cost effective option is the Tempus Period Tracker app (as it includes over 300 age-appropriate Q&A).
Got a child who is accessing the internet?
Keep your devices safe for your child by doing a step-by-step check on every device in your house with this Tech Check Workbook.
Teach your child how to act fast when they stumble upon content online that makes them feel uncomfortable with these age-appropriate porn safety posters.
Got a child who has been exposed to online porn? Or realised that it’s time to be talking about porn?
Grab my Parent Masterclass on what to do when your child has seen porn as it will walk you through what to do.
Putting off the porn talk because you think your child isn’t at risk? Complete my 2 minute Porn Quiz to find out if you are right (or not).
Start talking to your child about online porn in an age-appropriate way that helps them to make smart decisions with the Porn Talk Course.
Teach your child how to act fast when they stumble upon content online that makes them feel uncomfortable with these age-appropriate porn safety posters.
Look at my Pornography 101 page to learn more about how to protect your child from online porn, including information about parental controls and sexting.
Unsure of how to start sex-ed conversations?
Read this blogpost as it will show you the many different ways to have shame-free conversations with your child.
Got a child who is asking questions and you don’t know how to answer them?
Read this blogpost to learn why it is important to answer sex-ed questions from kids.
Grab my popular Sex Ed Answer Book that gives you age-specific answers to the most common questions kids ask parents (about sex).
Got a child who is uninterested in talking with you about sex?
Read this blogpost as it will give you some tips on what to do when they’re not interested, plus it will inspire you to not give up!
Worried about something your child is doing?
Look at this page as it has over 30 of the most common concerns parents have about their kids that are relevant to sex education.
Watch this Parent Masterclass on what to do when you are worried about sexual behaviour in your child.
Unsure of what books to read? Or videos to watch?
Read this blogpost to find sex education books that are suitable for 10 year olds.
Read this blogpost to find some tips on how to make reading sex ed books easier!
My favourite ten best sex education books that includes books that are important now!
My sex education video resources page.
Wishing you had a community of like-minded parents who won’t think you are weird for wanting to do sex education?
Join that parent group. My free Facebook group where parents help each other with sex education!
Anyway, that should get you started with teaching your child about sex in a non-awkward, shame-free and natural way! And this is where you can find the other age-by-age sex education guides.
