A list of sex education books for 3 year olds which means that… yes, you can actually start sex education this young (if not earlier).
Now, before you start to panic and think that your 3 year old is too young for the birds and bees or the facts of life, you can relax. Because none, yes I mean NONE, of these books actually talk about sexual intercourse!
Sex education in the early years isn’t about sex at all. It is about other things. If you want to know more about what sex education should look like, then watch the video in this blogpost about sex education in the home.
So you will find sex education books for 3 year olds in this list about naming the private parts of the body. Books that talk about diversity in families and in children, and that everyone is different and that’s okay. Books about body safety and the foundations for protecting children from sexual abuse. Books about pregnancy and age-appropriate information about where babies come from (inside mummy’s uterus). Books about lots of relevant stuff that 3 year olds do need to know about.
If it is a particular topic that you’re interested in, then you’ll find books by the topic in the main list of Sex Education Books for Children. And if you’re looking for book for a different aged child, then you’ll want to look at the age-appropriate list of sex education books. You can find more books about different topics in the main list of Sex Education Books for Children.
Now, if you reach a point of overwhelm, then you’ll want to have a look at my list of favourite sex education books. These are the books that I always seem to be recommending to parents. CLICK HERE to look at the 10 best sex education books.
If you want to learn more about getting started with sex education for 3 year olds, then you should look at this age-specific sex education guide for three year olds.
You’ll find more information about sex education in my Sex Education 101 page.
NOTE: Before passing any book to your child or reading the book with your child, you should read it yourself first. I might think it is a great book for a certain age child or that the information is valuable, but you may disagree. You need to choose books that reflect your values and the messages you want your child to receive.
Sex education books for 3 year olds
Body safety
Everyone’s Got a Bottom by Tess Rowley
No Means No! by Jayneen Sanders
My Underpants Rule by Kate and Rod Power
Will Ladybug Hug? By Hilary Leung
Vegetables in Underwear by Jared Chapman
Some Parts are Not for Sharing by Julie K. Federico
From my Heads to my Toes, I Say What Goes by Charlotte Barkla
A Sexual Abuse Prevention Course for Parents
Body Boss BootCamp
Your Body Rocks by Emily Lauren Dick
My Body What I Say Goes! by Jayneen Sanders
Private Parts are Private by Jayneen Sanders (Little Big Chats)
My Safety Network by Jayneen Sanders (Little Big Chats)
Consent by Jayneen Sanders (Little Big Chats)
I Always Try by Jayneen Sanders (Little Big Chats)
Secrets and Surprises by Jayneen Sanders (Little Big Chats)
My Early Warning Signs by Jayneen Sanders (Little Big Chats)
My Body, My Choice. Teaching Kids Consent by Crystal Hardstaff
My Body is Mine. Body Safety for Kids by Crystal Hardstaff
My Body is Safe. Tricky People and Safe People by Crystal Hardstaff
Boss of Your Own Body by Byll and Beth Stephen
Consent
C is for Consent by Eleanor Morrison
Will Ladybug Hug? By Hilary Leung
Can I Give You A Squish? by Emily Neilson
Ask First, Monkey by Juliet Clare Bell (A book about consent)
A Hug by Nicola Manton
Yes! No! A first conversation about consent by Megan Madison
From my Heads to my Toes, I Say What Goes by Charlotte Barkla
How to Say Hello by Sophie Beer
Consent by Jayneen Sanders (Little Big Chats)
Don’t Hug Doug (He Doesn’t Like It) by Carrie Finison & Daniel Wiseman
Diversity & inclusion
Who We Are! All about being the same and being different by Robie H. Harris
It’s Okay to be Different by Todd Parr
No Difference Between Us by Jayneen Sanders
Red: A Crayon’s Story by Michael Hall
Just The Way We Are by Jessica Shirvington
Our Skin. A first conversation about race by Megan Madison
The Very First You by Scott Stuart
Hello Every Body! by Samantha Curcio
A Church for All by Gayle E. Pitman
We Are All People by Zanni Louise
Around the World by Jayneen Sanders (Little Big Chats)
Everyone is Equal by Jayneen Sanders (Little Big Chats)
Every Body: A First Conversation About Bodies (First Conversations) by Megan Madison
Bodies are Cool by Tyler Feder
Families & Relationships
Who’s in my family? All about our families by Robie H. Harris
Just The Way We Are by Jessica Shirvington
The Family Book by Todd Parr
Who? A Celebration of Babies by Robie H. Harris
Play and Learn PaperDoll Families by Cath Hakanson
Families Belong by Dan Saks
Families Can by Dan Saks
Families Grow by Dan Saks
Together: A First Conversation About Love by Megan Madison
Hello Every Body! by Samantha Curcio
All About Friends by Felicity Brooks
Families by Jayneen Sanders (Little Big Chats)
Family, all that you dream it to be, by Byll & Beth Stephen
Feelings
In My Heart : A Book of Feelings by Jo Witek
No Matter What by Debi Gliori
When I’m Feeling Scared by Trace Moroney
Lottie’s Big Feelings by Christine Camp
All About Feelings by Felicity Brooks
Mindfulness by Jayneen Sanders (Little Big Chats)
Feelings by Jayneen Sanders (Little Big Chats)
Empathy by Jayneen Sanders (Little Big Chats)
Gender
No Difference Between Us by Jayneen Sanders
Play & Learn PaperDoll Friends by Cath Hakanson
Play and Learn PaperDoll Families by Cath Hakanson
Play and Learn PaperDoll Superheroes by Cath Hakanson
Being You: A first conversation about gender by Megan Madison
Are you a boy or are you a girl? by Sarah Savage and Fox Fisher
Inclusive Books
What Makes a Baby by Cory Silverberg: Book Review
Let’s Look at Different Body Parts Cards by Sex Ed Rescue
Play & Learn PaperDoll Friends by Cath Hakanson
Play and Learn PaperDoll Families by Cath Hakanson
Play and Learn PaperDoll Superheroes by Cath Hakanson
The Parent’s Guide to Explaining Sex by Cath Hakanson
Hello Every Body! by Samantha Curcio
Bodies are Cool by Tyler Feder
IVF Books (Assisted Reproduction)
What Makes a Baby by Cory Silverberg: Book Review
Let’s Look at Different Body Parts Cards by Sex Ed Rescue
Play & Learn PaperDoll Friends by Cath Hakanson
Play and Learn PaperDoll Families by Cath Hakanson
Play and Learn PaperDoll Superheroes by Cath Hakanson
The Parent’s Guide to Explaining Sex by Cath Hakanson
Hello Every Body! by Samantha Curcio
Bodies are Cool by Tyler Feder
Love
No Matter What by Debi Gliori
When I’m Feeling Love by Trace Moroney
Ten Little Fingers and Ten Little Toes by Mem Fox & Helen Oxenbury
If I Could Keep You Little by Marianne Richmond
The Wonderful Things You Will Be by Emily Winfield Martin
That’s Me Loving You by Amy Krouse Rosenthal
Together: A First Conversation About Love by Megan Madison
Pregnancy & Birthing
What Makes a Baby by Cory Silverberg: Book Review
What’s In There? All about before you were born by Robie H. Harris
There’s a House Inside my Mummy by Giles Andreae
How Big is Our Baby? A 9 month guide for soon-to-be siblings by Smriti Prasadam-Halls
Mummy, What’s in Your Tummy? by Bernardita Romero
Play and Learn PaperDoll Families by Cath Hakanson
Protective behaviours
Everyone’s Got a Bottom by Tess Rowley
No Means No! by Jayneen Sanders
Body Smart: Right From the Start by Kerri Isham
My Underpants Rule by Kate and Rod Power
Don’t Let the Pigeon Drive the Bus! by Mo Willems
Little Monkey’s One Safe Place by Richard Edwards
Some Parts are Not for Sharing by Julie K. Federico
A Sexual Abuse Prevention Course for Parents
My Body What I Say Goes! by Jayneen Sanders
Private Parts are Private by Jayneen Sanders (Little Big Chats)
My Safety Network by Jayneen Sanders (Little Big Chats)
I Always Try by Jayneen Sanders (Little Big Chats)
My Early Warning Signs by Jayneen Sanders (Little Big Chats)
My Body, My Choice. Teaching Kids Consent by Crystal Hardstaff
My Body is Mine. Body Safety for Kids by Crystal Hardstaff
My Body is Safe. Tricky People and Safe People by Crystal Hardstaff
Where babies come from
What Makes a Baby by Cory Silverberg: Book Review
What’s In There? All about before you were born by Robie H. Harris
Where do Babies Come From? by Usborne Books
Where Do Babies Come From? by Dr Jillian Roberts
Play and Learn PaperDoll Families by Cath Hakanson
The Parent’s Guide to Explaining Sex by Cath Hakanson
The Science of Babies by Deborah Roffman
These are some of the many sex education books for 3 year olds that have been written. As I find more, I will add them to this list. They are all really good books that kids can read to find reliable and accurate information about love, sex and relationships. Plus they will help prepare you too!
Happy reading!
Resources to help with talking about puberty
My mission is to create resources that will help you to naturally talk to your kids about sex, all while respecting your personal values.
Which means that inside this website, you’ll find lots of resources to help you with talking to your child about puberty.
My Sex Ed 101 page includes all of the information on sex education. You’ll find lots of different blog posts to help you gain a better understandign of what sex education is all about.
You’ll find videos about sex education in my Sex Education Videos resource page that you can watch with your child or to learn more about sex education yourself.
You’ll also find an extensive range of children’s sex education books, for kids of all ages.Â
If you’re unsure about how to answer your child’s questions about sex, then I have the perfect book for you! The Sex Education Answer Book will give you age-specific answers to the most common questions kid’s ask parents about sex. Which means you don’t need to worry about finding a child-friendly explanation that your child understands.
If you need some help with explaining sexual intercourse to your child, then you may like my Masterclass on explaining sex for the very first time or my parent guide will also help you explain sex to your child in a way they will understand. It breaks sex down into simple steps that take the stress out of explaining!
Plus you will find plenty more sex education resources at the Sex Ed Shop.
And if you get stuck, feel free to get in touch! You can contact me here.